Or do you keep them to yourself?
Are you 'allowed' to find another man/woman attractive ... or do you get 'caught looking'
do you masturbate about your fetish on your own, and have 'regular' sex with your signifigant other ... or do you mix the 2
How honest are you about your sexual desires?
2007-05-07 07:34:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
so I guess no one wants to be honest about this huh
2007-05-07 07:46:08 · update #1
... accept for peach (thx btw)
2007-05-07 07:47:05 · update #2
Tell some desires and keep fantasies to myself. After all they are My fantasies. Just for me alone.
No, I do not get caught looking. Tho I do look.
Yes and yes.
Not totally honest and make up stories.
2007-05-07 07:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by peach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really have a strong sexual fantasy. I jokingly asked my BF if he would have a 3some (me, him, and another guy) just to see what he would say, though! He sort of gave this hesitant sigh, and said "Okay." But, when I told him I was serious he said, "I only said that to make you happy." And I have also hinted/joked about some other fantasies just to see his reaction!
I don't really tell my BF who I find attractive. I don't think it's very nice. Plus, I really don't find that many people attractive anyway. It has more to do with personality with me. I don't think he would mind, at least he doesn't show it, but I still don't feel right about it. I get mad if I catch him looking- so I try not to do it myself.
I sometimes jokingly say I want to do something- when I sort of wwant to try it. I guess I am try about my sexual desires!
2007-05-07 15:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by January 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes I tell my husband some, but I know some have and would scare him, so I don't share them all.
I don't get caught looking
Yeah, my fetishes are pretty good, so I can really enjoy them sometimes. I do mix the two.
2007-05-07 14:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by addicted2stamping 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say that I am lucky enough to live them with my wife. We are very open with each other about our desires and needs and we don't have to get caught looking. We're married...not dead!
2007-05-07 14:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him all of the time, keeps it spicy and yes I get caught looking, very honest ...
2007-05-07 14:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell my hubby my desires it gives us some new ideas to spice up or sex life as he tells me too
i dont masturbate i have never tried it and i have sex usually at least once a day with my hubby if we have no "conflicts" that would cause us to not (ragging')
i dont look at other men i have the one i want
and im honest about my sexual desires
2007-05-07 15:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by organiz'd khoaz 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should tell, and spend more time please her than yourself will ya, Sheesh waht a waste of time.
2007-05-07 14:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋