it's just gross! i get hit on more now then before i got pregnant and it freakin' me out. my hubby thinks it's a little funny but i definitely don't
2007-05-07 06:56:38 · 16 answers · asked by nelly78 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I too have been in your shoes and it totally grossed me out as well. I had a neighbor actually tell me that it was his fantasy to sleep with a pregnant woman...I politely told him to get his own wife pregnant and then I turned and went back inside...thank goodness we don't live in the neighborhood anymore...what a weirdo. My husband made a joke saying men hit on pregnant women because they know they put out! LOL, I think women look great when pregnant, but we don't feel so great and having man stare at us when we feel so over crowded as is, is just creepy.
Hang in there! It will be over soon
2007-05-07 07:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Leslie R 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
To some men there is nothing more beautiful or sexy than a woman that is pregnant. Call it a perversion if you like. But people notice how radiant pregnant women look and comment on the fact. I am sure you have heard the comment being made. To those men that look translates into sexy and they act accordingly, even though the lady in question may feel otherwise.
2007-05-07 14:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Clint W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda like it, its not that I get hit on, but men are much nicer to me, I work at a college and i notice a lot of the men and guy students will smile at me almost always and open doors, even the grounds guys ask me how I am when Im on lunch, makes me feellike maybe all men arent jerks. My husband says I glow, which he didnt believe in before Igot pregnant. I truly feel like I look better than I usually do, I might as well enjoy it while it lasts.
2007-05-07 14:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Bored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnant women have this natural glow that I think men are attracted to. I also got hit on more when I was pregnant...my husband hated it!!! It is a little flattering because most women feel very unattractive while they are pregnant. At least your husband has a good sense of humor. I also think pregnant women are absolutely beautiful!!!
2007-05-07 14:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah how strange. I've noticed guys are a lot nicer to me now that I'm pregnant though. They open doors for me, pull out chairs for me at restaurants, ect. I sorta feel like a princess. I think that the people I've encountered are just wanting to be cordial though and nice. My fiance is always going over the top for me too (opening the car door, fixing lunch, breakfast, and dinner, ect ect.) Maybe a lot of the people you meet are just infatuated with you because us pregnant women glow and are beautiful and they might be a lil' jealous that your hubby is with you and they aren't! :)
2007-05-07 14:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by Miley 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure what it is. I thought I was goin crazy or I had 5 eyes or something when the guys started staring more and more! I mean, my husband tells me how beautiul I am pregnant..but thats him ya know!? Weird, but just give them a look or point to the belly or maybe even next time say "hey..whats up with this?" Congrats to you and good luck :)
2007-05-07 14:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by tulips♥77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are crazy...All women know that but they might be trying to leave you a nice comment not actually hitting on you...It is always nice to have a nice thing said about you when you dont feel so pretty
2007-05-07 14:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya. I've had more guys checking me out since my baby bump started coming in than I can remember from before? What is the deal with that? I don't know either. If you don't like it then make sure you make it known.
2007-05-07 14:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by sweetsar99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well some women look better pregnant, i had guys who contacted me on here wanting to see my belly. I flipped out.
IM glad my hubby still thinks im beautiful when im pregnant i couldnt handle him dropping his sex drive when mine would be shooting through the roof, lol
2007-05-07 14:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a mother of 4 and a wife of 12 years and in
the past unfortunately i was badly physically, mentally,
and emoitionally abused. i feel strongly that no one
should be treated that way. i can now sit here and
say i put a stop to that bull ****. if you are not happy
in the relationship then i suggest to find a way out
of it,,,,,, now,,,,,,,,, my 3 older children witnessed the
abuse and it has affected them. i wish i could have
not put them through that. i wish i was wiser. plz do
not have any i should have's or i could have's.
do not be another statistic........................
may you and your baby be blessed and safe.....
2007-05-07 14:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋