stop you from crying is exactly the same person who made you cry...?
that's a love poetry i read on some website. just wanna know if it's true hehe thanks
2007-05-07 06:53:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
For me yes because I want them to understand why I'm so upset. I also need to be heard; validated. It really helps to know that they get it, and it will bug me until they do. Things would be over so quickly if they would listen properly.
2007-05-14 09:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't true and here is a poem I wrote about a similar heart break.
Moments to Remember
The times you always remember
even long after the day has past.
Names and faces sometimes fade
but these great memories will last.
These moments of awe and wonder,
are just time with the power to amaze.
The minutes that give you strength
and lift you up on the roughest days.
When the gray clouds come into view
and they’re carrying your greatest fears.
Get ready for the wonder that comes
only when the rainbow first appears.
When he makes a promise of forever,
and then breaks your heart in half.
The wonder comes when you meet
another who helps you find your laugh.
He takes your hand and broken heart
and begins to set pieces back in place.
You see your hope reflected in his eyes,
and feel the first new smile on your face.
You thought there was nothing left,
you had given all your feelings away.
Then the recognition slowly comes,
you survived to love another day.
2007-05-07 13:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by ecogeek4ever 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no ... its not true
its exactally the opposite
... the reason you want to talk to the person that made you cry is because you want that person to 'feel' how badly you are hurting ... and not to work personal issues out
you think if they understand your pain it will some how change the way they think, and its just not true
this is an example of codependancy at its finest and most destructive ... and I bet we can all relate (which is why they write poetry and songs about this kinda stuff, because its so emotional and we all go through it)
2007-05-07 14:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. The only person who can stop me from crying is myself. However, the person who hurt me is the one that I want to talk to so that I can resolve the issue because it does not do any good to complain to others because that is all I am doing is complaining.
The person who hurt me - well, either I can resolve it, find out that I somehow misunderstood what was said or done, or scream at them for hurting me. Either way it makes me feel better.
2007-05-12 14:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by bobbijoslin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Comfort or validation from a significant person can do the same. If your statement is true many will be crying forever.
2007-05-07 14:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by TAT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe this is true for all, not only females. All humans want closure, an end to a problem, or at least an explanation. When someone we care about hurts us, we want to find out why they did it.
2007-05-12 18:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgrkguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This belongs in psychology
2007-05-07 20:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sorta =true i actually wanna rip their hearts out
2007-05-07 14:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by shaelrcrk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats an interesting notion.
2007-05-07 13:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience.
2007-05-07 14:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by blindedbyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋