I'm a bisexual female. But I always find myself being attracted to gay guys. And I feel so awful, because I know it'll get me no where. But at the same time, I've always believed anyone can fall in love. And gender doesn't really mean anything.
I've also always hated it because I have an awful fear of rejection. I have really bad anxiety, and if someone rejects me I usually find some way to hurt myself because I don't feel worthy enough.
Does this make me crazy?
2007-05-07 06:14:28 · 6 answers · asked by Hurt 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
wow u have a dilema... lesbian girl attracted to gay guyz wouldnthat make you straight??? well watevers it is youll find love out there... wheater male or female... you just have to patient and it ill get to you at the right time in life...
2007-05-07 06:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by *.:MrM:.* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are totally focusing on sex. That used to bother me too, for a long time in my life. My whole outlook on life depended on whether or not I was accepted by someone else. That got me into messes, depression, anti sicial behavior, etc.
I hope you can find something outside of yourself to focus on. And let the relationships happen when they do. You seem to be guided on fear of lonliness.
2007-05-07 13:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Helen Fisher :
http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/view/id/16
There are 3 Distinctive area of your Brain that drive LOVE :
1- Lusty love
2- Romantic love
3- Attached love
It's quite interessting in her 45 years of research on Love
Cheers
2007-05-07 13:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are bi or gay you will have emotional difficulties until you learn the right way to be happy with a man .
2007-05-07 13:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Red Cantrell 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no you are just lost and insecure....Juts find someone worthy enough for you that loves you..and stuff.
2007-05-07 13:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by some girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, LIKE A LOON.
2007-05-07 13:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋