how do you feel when people judge you?

Question

can we learn to respect each other and be honest and stop judging each other, and love our differences instead of criticizing how we each live our lives. as long as we are taking care of ourself it doens't matter.
i want to hear your thoughts on this. cause i hate when people pre-judge without knowing me.
thanks.

Answer 1

i have learned to respect and love everyone without judging them by their appearance and by what others say no matter what the color, size, or appearance i have always had the habit of thinking everyone is nice and although i m might be shy i look forward to meeting new people to create a better place for me and my world i don't like it when people judge me (and other people) base on only the appearance because i know that if everyone would only look at things physically they won't like that thing or person for what and who they really are. i know that if we look at what's deep inside of all of us we'd find true beauty. beauty that each one of us needs to find in order to learn how to love in the utmost capability

Answer 2

If they do - it's their problem ..not mine . When people judge without reason , it is either out of jealously ; spite , or to promote an agenda . If you feel good about yourself - you'll ignore it ; because you're right .."it doesn't matter" Sometimes ,however , someone unfairly judged may be harmed in someway by it ..which might be the only reason to respond at all . When Don Imus was judged a racist by Al Sharpton and liberal democrats - the agenda was to silence his criticism of Hillary Clinton . Imus is no racist ..and for that he must be defended ..as well as the fact that free speech must be defended .

Answer 3

people constantly judge me and I feel terrible. I hate sitting in a room with many people and I used to feel sick on the bus every morning and all day at college... because I knew everyone was judging me wherever I was. I'm pretty much a nervous wreck with no confidence. I don't think it's that I'm paranoid either... I think people stare at each other as if they're judging... especially on the right side of my house. On the left side, people are cool and live their own lives in that town. It's a nice walk.

Answer 4

It's lousy when people judge you without knowing anything about you. I get it pretty often and I hate it. I mean, you don't know me. You don't know what made the negative things in me and why I do what I do. We should try hard to abstain from criticizing one another, particularly when we don't know or understand each other and our reasons for being the way we are.

Answer 5

I feel like a wilted flower......

When someone judges they are functioning at a low level and it zapps everyone's energy that is involved..........

When people observe a situation and are funtioning on a higher level, they have the opportunity to ask for understanding and in turn, either 'get' what the other person is about or forgive them if they are having a less than 'perfect' expression of just being human.....


People are so wonderful, and everyone has unlimited potential......

I feel when people shoot 'negative' judgment at others it is more about their frame of mind that the one they are judging.....

people need way more tolerance. I try to put myself in others shoes...

If I have an understanding of what makes them tick, it usually soften my heart for them...I would want others to treat me this way too.....

I call those who know this 'my friends'.....

you are sweet, and special and unique....see others that way, talk to them that way and you'll begin to have experiences more often that vibrate on higher levels.......

don't push the river........

Answer 6

i really hate when people try to judge me. its wrong because they dont know a thing about me.
if someone catches me on a day i feel down, they will assume i am just an unhappy depressed old bag.
its not right, the only judge is our creator.

Answer 7

i'm useful she grew to become into, you're an entire toddler figuring out to purchase some thing you need to attend a minimum of 5+ extra years for. do no longer hassle approximately her judgment. in case you could not stand the warmth, get out of the kitchen.

Answer 8

judging people has been that way forever. no matter who you are, good looking, poor, rich, - there is always going to be someone that judges you about something.

doesnt bother me, my judge is the man upstairs.

Answer 9

Dale Carnegie says that criticizing people doesn't do anyone any good. I tend to agree, but sometimes still can't help it.

Answer 10

i don't judge people but i am sure critiqued almost daily. it bothers me sometimes and does make me self-conscious. my husband says that the ones that find fault with you are envious and miserable and want you to be the way they are.