My husband and I have been married about a year and a half. We have been separated for 6 months now. I currently live in a different state than him. We own nothing jointly nor do we have children. I want to file for divorce. How do I go about doing that? Do I need a lawyer even-though we have nothing to fight over? Also, do not wish to recieve spouse support. Please help direct me in the right direction. Also, I was wondering if the "apply for divorce online" are legit?!? Please help. Thanks in advance. :-)
2007-05-07 05:32:01 · 12 answers · asked by Becca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay, some said it would be helpful if i provided the states. we were married in pennsylvania. moved to connecticut. he still lives in connecticut and i now live back in pennyslvania.
2007-05-07 05:48:50 · update #1
you can go to LegalZoom.com and get all the forms you need to file.....I don't think you can do it online, you'll have to take them to the courthouse and pay the filing fee.......
2007-05-07 05:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me start by saying I am a legal assistant here in the state of Texas. Every state is different and has different laws. The state of Texas requires that one of the spouses has been a resident of the state and county for a continous six month period. You can get the forms from the library of your court usually. I create my own forms for people to use just like legalzoom if you do not have anything to split up your divorce will be simple.
First, you have to file an Original Petition for Divorce.
Second, you have to have him served the papers out of town or you have to have him sign a waiver if he is in agreement. If he signs the waiver then
Third, Here in TX you have to wait 60 days before you can file your Final Divorce Decree. In our court here they ask that all divorce prove-ups if they are uncontested are held on certain days at certain times and then the judge will usually just award the divorce. However, if your spouse does not sign the waiver he has to file an answer to the lawsuit and the whole ballgame changes.
2007-05-10 00:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Esmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many attorneys offer free consultation. Call one. What is the difference if you pay for a paperwork kit, pay the filing fee, take time off work to drive to and from the courthouse a couple times, etc
vs.
Pay a lawyer to do the same thing. You're not talking a large difference in $$ for a simple divorce(no kids, no assets, no pensions or 401k's) and it will be done correctly.
Many states require you live in the state for a certain amount of time before you can file for a divorce. You'll have to meet you new states requirements or file in the state of your prior residence.
2007-05-07 06:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Carp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the state you're living in, you may be able to file for a simple, uncontested divorce.
I went through a mutual, voluntary divorce (well, I wasn't really wanting one, but she did, and I chose not to contest it), and we were able to file and have it granted by the court without a lawyer. This was in Florida. Not all states have this.
You might want to re-post your question and be specific about the state that you live in, and the state that he lives in.
Good luck.
2007-05-07 05:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some states have no fault and some don't need an atty; but it's generally better to retain one. You file where you live; and call the local county clerk for state specifics about what to file and where; as well as if you need an atty and some general costs
Good luck
PA is a pain in the butt. You need to contact an atty.
2007-05-07 05:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by wizjp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go into the court clerk's office and file a petition for divorce. In my state it costs $180 to file. Should be done in 30 days. The spousal support, you wouldn't have gotten anyway, not for being married that amount of time.
2007-05-07 05:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call your soon to be ex up and sit down with a single attorney and spend a few bucks to get it done.
You each are entitled to half of everything in most states. This would include 401k's, pensions in some cases, and 403b retirement plans.....
In many cases, you are both liable for marital debts..... IF this is over, then end it quick and end it right legally.....
2007-05-07 05:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by flyfish_777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start with filing if it's what you really want and he agrees to it. You can save a lot of money and time with an uncontested divorce. You don't need a lawyer.
2007-05-09 16:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by dorwin29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the court house, ask for all divorce papers, fill them out yourself and pay to have him served. IF he does not contest (won't do him any good, regardless), the divorce is automatic. IF you left him and moved, you may have to file in the state you moved from. Good luck
2007-05-07 05:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can get a divorce packet at a stationery (office supply) store, and file it yourself, (at the courthouse) if your soon-to-be ex is agreeable, you can serve him yourself too, via certified mail. this is all in the instructions. If he is not fighting you, it should go very smoothly.
Sorry that you are going through this.
2007-05-07 05:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u will need to file in the county of your original residence...will be quick and easy...no kids no property....apply for divorce online (legitimate companies) will only provide u with the appropriate paperwork and DO NOT represent you in a court of law...check on any company with the Better Business Bureau at www.bbb.org.
2007-05-07 05:36:34 · answer #11 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋