I worry about things I can't change all the time so I'm not optimistic.
2007-05-07 04:55:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
The solution to this problem is to achieve balance in one's life. To limit one's life to one area of knowledge can be a serious drawback to true success. A balanced life is one that is diversified, one that involves a number of wholesome and worthwhile experiences. While it may be good to be outstanding in one area of expertise, one may find himself completely out of touch with everything else and can easily lack any social graces. A man is not an island to himself. Success in life includes balanced socializing.
2007-05-07 09:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can be optimistic by always hoping. Hoping for the best. You can be optimistic by always choosing to be joyful at the start of each day. Pray to God. Ask Him to guide you and to help you be optimistic. Cause He's optimistic. When things don't go your way, don't fret. Just simply thank God and adjust because if He sees you react positively, you have a blessing far better than what you can think of. He may not give it to you now, but just wait. Don't worry, have the faith a child has to his dad. Have faith that God will always deliver you from your troubles. Just calm down when bad things happen and then count and then focus on the way you must react.
2007-05-12 14:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Rhabdite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to BECOME optimistic but it's completely possible! To start, just always look for the good in people and the bright side of even the worst situations. This is one of those things you always have to do and then eventually you won't have to try so much and it'll come naturally. And optimistic doesn't mean being unrealistic either. So don't get too carried away with, keep your head on straight.
2007-05-07 05:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by hanadmac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Optimist is one who can see a half glass filled.Anyone can be a optimist provided he thrives on HOPE, has a zest to live,is pragmatic and bubbles with confidence.An optimist is one who has an uncanny ability to see the brighter things in life .He is one who has conquered fear and one who has full of ideas.
He doesn't allow problems to come in rather he marches towards worries stands up and thrashes out solutions.He doesn't worry about anything until and unless the worry worries him.
One should be brave practical imaginative should possess will power and determination to handle any tricky situation.Be cool and calm even in adversity. Dont panic,dont over react just be yourself.Be poised and thoughts would naturally flow in to counter any worry.
2007-05-14 00:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by bnsrrinivasan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You become an optimist by having gratitude for life. If you do not take your life for granted, and you truly appreciate the fact that you have this very moment to live a life of freedom and happiness, then it is pretty dang hard not to be optimistic.
2007-05-15 05:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by TheFeature 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Optimist Creed
Promise yourself...
To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet.
To make all your friends feel that there is something worthwhile in them.
To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true.
To think only of the best, to work only for the best and to expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.
To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful expression at all times and give a smile to every living creature you meet.
To give so much time to improving yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.
To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud word, but in great deeds.
To live in the faith that the whole world is on your side, so long as you are true to the best that is in you.
2007-05-07 05:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one's perfect, so we can't all be optimistic all the time (even those who smile so much that you want to punch them frown in private). Do your best to think about all the good things that you have each day. Maybe at the end of each day, write a list of 5 things that you're thankful for or that was good or whatever that day. How can you stay unhopeful for the future when each day brings some good. :)
2007-05-07 05:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by rosecolured 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first analyze the situation.some things can't b changed but remember b happy with u have and wat u get.but u should reach 4 greater heights 2 achieve the impossible.try 2 do as little change that u can do by urself.go out or spend a few days with lazy,easy goin ppl who always think that they can manage things.that way don't think that u'll also b like them.u can learn the optimistic attitude from them and leave the other bad things out.sometimes u have 2 b pessimist first,then only u can b a good optimist.u should not be over confident.every thing has it's limits.know wat u r and know wat u can do and so do ur best.
2007-05-07 05:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you focus on, you give power to, good and bad. Change your focus. Like attracts like. Be a magnet for good things in your life. The universe is waiting to help you, just ask. One thing, change what you can, accept what you cannot change. Be smart enough to know the difference. Blessings on you.
2007-05-07 12:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't dwell on the negative stuff, appreceiate the small stuff in life and always look at the sunny side of everything! Always smile:)
2007-05-12 23:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋