its all about her needs.
2007-05-07 04:34:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is a reason that you say it's all about her needs that makes it difficult to completely help you with this question. If divorce is on the agenda, obviously some things went wrong with the marriage but again you don't say what. Do you have children that will be primarily in her care? If so, then it may be best for the two of you to continue sharing living arrangements until the divorce is final and financial arrangements are in effect. If you are at each others throats, then perhaps it would be in both of your interest to separate until things are finalized. Whatever the situation, I wish you luck.
2007-05-07 04:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be staying in the house if I was planning on keeping the house and kicking her butt to the curb!
But if it's your intentions of letting her keep the house, then get out NOW!!! IF she's wanting a divorce, then it's time to STOP having it being about HER NEEDS!!!
2007-05-07 11:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Stay in the house - try a separation for awhile and see if that will help matters...... Having a happy marriage is the hardest business in the world with the best results!
2007-05-07 11:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have decided to seperate, one of you should leave the house. It hurts at first and it might seem hard but we all do what we have to to survive. Staying in the house is like rubbing salt in the wounds. It will take longer for everyone envolved to heal if you dont sepnd some time apart.
2007-05-07 11:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by mable3691214 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you leave it's her house, until the judge/mediator decides what to do with it. This also goes for everything in the house. As my lawyer told me..."If it was that important to you, why did you leave it behind." After that you will have to fight to get your crap back, at which point you'll hear my favorite lawyer quote.."How much crap could you buy if you didn't have to pay me $375.00 an hour to get stuff back." Stay and file first (shouldn't matter...but does).
2007-05-07 21:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both have done all that you possibly can to fix the marriage so you both look back on it and know in your heart of hearts that you did all you could then.......
If the house is both of yours then yes, stay. If it is just a rental then leave her to it.
If it is truly over why wait for her to file?
2007-05-07 11:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay for now...if she's the one that's unhappy then she should move out until she decides....if you leave there's a possibility she could claim abandonment. I hope this doesn't happen, but don't move out until she makes up her mind. Have you tried to get her to go to a counselor?
2007-05-07 11:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you sit around and wait for her to do the divorce? Why don't you just file for one? I'd kick her out!
2007-05-07 12:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Branicle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do you want to lose your mind? Move out and give yourself some quiet time to think about what is happening, maybe you could stay with a friend for a while, or family.
2007-05-07 11:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes stay back...chances are u might not divorce at all ... u say right now its all about her needs.. have u ever felt, once upon a time she was / might have cared only about ur needs ?....this happens when husbands are self-centered
2007-05-07 11:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by RCD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋