I was considering for mothers day this gift for my mom, but im worried it will only make her upset...what do you think?
My grandfather (her dad) passed last June, and i was going to take my son (3 yrs old) to the cemetary and take a nice picture of him placing a rose on the headstone, frame it up and give it to her...is that a morbid idea for mothers day? or do you think she would like it as a memorial to her dad, and a picture of her only grandbaby combined in one?
2007-05-07 04:01:58 · 14 answers · asked by Jessica 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would not do it for Mother's Day. Maybe it would be better to do it for the anniversary of his memorial, or the anniversary of his passing.
2007-05-07 09:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Alese H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tad on the edge of morbid, I'd give her a framed pictured of your son, let her grieve in her own way, why not offer to go to the grave with her and place your rose on his grave, ohh, and don't let your son run all over the grave, promise, its hurts the loved one standing there seeing it for the first time
2007-05-07 11:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's morbid. Iwould just get a cute picture of your son taken at Walmart or something and give her that.
2007-05-07 11:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why not find a pic of your grandfather and find someone to combine (I don't know the 'technical' term) that with a pic of your son...like they actually took the pic together.
2007-05-07 11:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just go with a nice picture of your son. I wouldn't want a picture of my father's grave in my house.
2007-05-07 11:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That sounds a little on the creepy side to me. I get what you are doing but I think it would freak your mom out a little bit.
2007-05-07 11:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by sugar_pink_candy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's an OK idea but since it was last June, I think its way to soon
2007-05-07 11:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I think it's morbid
2007-05-07 11:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by Chewie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only you can truly answer that question. Whatever you decide, I hope it goes well. Good Luck.
2007-05-07 11:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Kel, I think it's too soon.
2007-05-07 11:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋