Who's should pay for the trip expenses? My guy or me?

Question

I just came back for a long vacation (means, Im broke) and my fiance wants me to go with him on a trip to europe for his sister weeding.

who has to pick up the bill?

Answer 1

You have mentioned word "fiance" I must admit you live together and make the "family budget" together. Hence, it's an issue of both of you.

Otherwise you can make your fiance pay the bill, and you know how to do it. Men don't know what women want but women do know what we (men) want ;-)

Be a good girl and you get a present on the top of all these.

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Answer 2

You need to talk to him. First of all you said U r broke, tell him that. Second he is asking for you to attend the marriage of his sister, he should offer to pay for all the expenses, since he is asking. BTW are you invited by his sister for the marriage?
Getting married in Europe can be very expensive, if you live and work there it is OK but going from here is another thing. I would think she works there and has her would be husband also working there. The BF should be able to pick up the tab.

Answer 3

i think both of u
ofocurse if he was ur friend then he may pay for u
boyfriend doesnt means a boy ..u r loving him as u want to share life with him..all his relatives shud be urs
and urs shud be his...
dont bring this money in between love
what happens if u pay the bill...that means that u r loosing all love....when u love someone u need to also sacrifice
as he pays for u in hotels,in pubd discos,restaurants...
u also need to pay for some
just try to share everything not like oneway traffic

Answer 4

Key phrase(he wants you to go), He should pick up the bill. You have to be open and honest with him and let him know your sitituation. If he loves you and care about you he should understand. You shouldn't have to show love through your pockets. an old fable if you catch a dove let it go if it comes back it's yours if not it was never ment to be.

Answer 5

You should be able to discuss finances openly if you are getting married. He should pay your way. HE asked you to HIS sister's wedding as HIS guest. He should understand your predicament anyway. Besides, no time like the present to share the "what's yours is mine" philosophy of marriage.

Answer 6

YOU SHOULD EXPLAIN TO HIM OF YOUR FINANCES.
AND LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE THE
FUNDS FOR THIS TRIP. AND IF HE WOULD GLADLY
PAY YOUR EXPENSES THEN YOU WOULD GLADLY
GO WITH HIM TO THE WEDDING. YOU NEED TO KEEP
AN OPEN COMMUNICATION LINE WITH HIM AND LET
HIM KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON. THAT WAY THERE
WILL BE NO MISUNDERSTANDING ON EACH OTHER
PART. AND IF FOR SOME REASON HE CAN NOT PAY
YOUR EXPENSES THEN KINDLY PAY YOUR APOLO-
GIZES FOR NOT BEING ABLE TO ATTEND AND
SAY MAYBE NEXT TIME.....

Answer 7

he does. he invited you, its his sister's wedding your going as his date.
if your getting married soon then you should probably be able to talk about the finances and tell him that you're not sure you can afford to go with him so soon after your vacation. just so he knows where your coming from.

Answer 8

He pays for the trip. Also ask for a new dress for the wedding.

Answer 9

I'd normally pay for myself on a no-commitment date but since he's your fiance, I think he should pay.

Answer 10

You need to pay your own way, so if you can't afford it, you can't go. If he wants you to go that badly and has the money, he may want to pay for you to go, but you definitely shouldn't expect him to pay automatically.