No good in bedroom?

Question

i have been told by all my girlfriends i'm no good in the bedroom and my size in not big enough...and this has now knock my confidence right down...

Now i'm have sort of meet a girl who i really like to bits..but all i think of now is if or when that time comes she will do the same and leave me..

all the girls that have said that to me..are the shy type so i found it hard to take and now i get very scared when that part of the realationship comes...

if you have had the same experience what did you do to come over it....

Answer 1

in time you will find some one and your confidence will hit tops good luck

Answer 2

If you really have been told by girlfriends that you are no good in bed, then you are doing something wrong! Unless you are so small as to be deformed, it's unlikely that size is the issue here. Could it be a selfish attitude when having sex? Or premature ejaculation (very common) Either way, go see your doctor who will point you in the direction where you can get help. That's not easy of course. Maybe the Net?

Answer 3

**** them! They are all assholes to make you feel that way. I'm sorry to say but I think you've picked the wrong girls in the past since they've made you feel like this. There are genuinely good[-looking] & loving chicks out there. At the minute you're probably don't believe me but when the right one comes along it'll be such a relief. And when you do, don't give a flying f*** about what anyone else thinks because it's not a problem and it's not important. Best of luck mate.

Answer 4

From what I understand, size is nice to women, but I'd bet it's the whole package that counts - being good in bed is more than simply physical dimensions. Concentrate on finding out what your partner responds to. See what she likes, and do more of that. Be imaginative and patient. Touch and sound can play a big role. Cuddling and kissing really do make a difference - restrain your desires a little, don't be in a hurry to hop into bed, and you may find that she'll respond with increasing enthusiasm to your attentions. And use lots of lubrication - discomfort is a great turn-off.

Answer 5

I have to say, size has NEVER been an issue. I read a study that said 84% of men think their penis is too small, whereas only 12% of women think their partner's penis is too small. Women that tell men they're too small are just taking advantage of mens insecurities.

Lack of skill in lovemaking can be a problem. You need to take your time with your next girlfriend. When the time comes to make love, TALK TO HER, ask her what she likes. That will do it every time. I promise.

Answer 6

Most men seem to think that size matters, but it doesn't! Ever heard of the saying "its not what you've got but its what you do with it" ? That also applies in the bedroom department! Its all about consideration for your partner , not size.Most sensable women would say the same,believe me!

Answer 7

if there not happy with how u r in the bedroom and dump u cos of that then there no good for you. I aint no godess in the bedroom and i dnt have much confidence but i think pratice makes perfect and if u can find someone who doesnt care u'll give the best sex possible.

Answer 8

the fact is that given time, a woman's vagina expands or contracts to the size of her partners penis. both of you as a couple can intensify the feelings during lovemaking. you should understand that the majority of women achieve an orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris. also, your partner can intensify the feelings by tensing her vaginal muscles during intercourse.
fore play and after play can add depths to lovemaking which overcome any shortfall to actual intercourse. like anything else in a successful partnership, it requires that both partners put in commitment and effort.
those girls that have destroyed your confidence have a lot to answer for. if they were dissatisfied, that is as much their fault as yours

Answer 9

When you find that certain woman that you love ... and she loves you ..... size really doesn't matter. She loves you ..... not your sex parts.

If there is a problem with size ... perhaps it's time to use other parts as well. Put those hands to work. Use your mouth. Use your tongue and lips. Explore all the parts of her body as well. Sex is much more than intercourse and penetration.

Hob

Answer 10

When women are being bitchy they say that hun. They know it knocks a mans confidence. Be confident. You are the best ok ? Take it easy and just be yourself xx PS I find small men are better ! They take their time and OH boy !!

Answer 11

Size is not everything. Its not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean!!! Thats what i say. Women can be hateful. Screw them so to speak. When you find the right woman you can practise together, remember practise makes perfect!!!