What is normal for a 27year old man? How often do you want it. has your sex drive decreased since your early 20's? Are you a drinker and does that effect your drive/stamina? What can be done to increase the sex drive of a man this age... not a problem getting it to work, but a problem even bothering to try...
2007-05-07 03:16:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I am 25, and quite honestly, I dont have much of a sex drive anymore.
I lost my virginity at 14 and have been very sexually active since then, it just loses its luster like many other things.
I have been with my girl for about 2 years and we have sex maybe 8 times a month. It's a lot better when you hold out longer....
2007-05-07 03:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Angel in Hell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely tell him you're a virgin. You might run asking "if you're with a virgin what would you do different?" Hopefully he'll say I be gentle and very careful..... if not you might want to rethink that situation. You asked in many ways to prepare your self for having sex the first time. Make sure you're not going to start your period in the next hour... that helps. Have a condom in case the one he has has been in his wallet for two years. It's difficult but you have to relax during the process... the more tense you are the more it will be uncomfortable. Even a very experienced women can find intercourse during the first 20 seconds a bit uncomfortable that's typical. I would not be too nervous about someone who has had sex with someone else because if you tell them a virgin or not at a rate you on your experience. Not telling them your virgin might make them think a little differently. Also I would ask him if he had unprotected sex with his former girlfriend.... you might see if he offers a condom first with you... if he doesn't it means he probably didn't with the other women either and STD could be more likely.... always be careful As for bleeding.... some women don't bleed at all... it really depends on how intact your hymen is. You already mentioned fingers so I seriously doubt it's very intact all. If you didn't find fingering (like two) painful then you're probably not going to find intercourse too painful unless your partner is extremely endowed. You asked a question about using the bathroom and peeing afterwards. Actually this typically happens to women after they have orgasm. Because of the muscle constrictions they can sometimes have an urgent need to go. Having an orgasm and losing your virginity on the same day rarely happen. Adviceman
2016-05-17 09:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is not a medical malady, it is usually caused by:
1. Not enough exercise. This lowers many of the body's natural sex-drive producing growth hormone and steroid production.
2. Stress. a definate killer.
3. Alcohol. NOT good.
4. Another woman or excessive masterbation. That really cuts down on the sex drive.
Solutions: Be more active daily, getting at least 30 mins. per day of proper aerobic activity and some sort of weight resistance training or activity. This will help. Reduce stress, Do not masterbate daily. AND, short of killing off any would-be adversaries, do something creative that really turns him on.
If none of that works, check his pulse.
2007-05-07 03:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by joeiselvis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Age doesn't matter, at all. Trust me. I've been with a 40+ year old man. He is fit, totally healthy, and full of vigor. He doesn't smoke, drinks moderately but what's important, he looks after his health. He drinks his dose of multivitamin daily, sweats it out at the gym at least 3 x a week. I personally think that 90% of it comes from his outlook about life. So start being positive! Doesn't hurt to laugh everyday :-)
Cheers,
Maej
2007-05-07 03:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 3 to 4 times a week. Drinking will decrease your stamina. Healthy living will increse it. He should want it a lot, even if he can't keep up, or keep it up. Maybe he just doesn't find you attractive anymore, or maybe he's gay. Either way, sounds like a giant douche bag and you probably need a vibrator or a boyfriend who doesn't suck.
2007-05-07 03:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a guide I got on mistermanpower.com with a bunch of natural ways of boosting sex drive. I've turned into a horny teenager all over again.
2007-05-07 03:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jeffrey S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have experienced that guys round that age have a higher sex drive and want it more often as well. Younger guys do it for fun and get worn out easily.... age brings sexual stamina! lol... just my opinion though....
2007-05-07 03:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by nads 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-14 18:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to some drinking does not help.
If sex is something you use to enjoy but now don't then something is most likely wrong.... like depression perhaps.
Talk to a doctor abut it.
2007-05-07 03:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a few people in that age group that had tremendous sex drives....back when I was an altar boy....
2007-05-07 03:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋