My ex-gf and i were dating for 5 years, the last 1 1/2 became long distance bcs she moved back to her country and even though I wanted to marry her, i stalled. We continued going out, but apparently she starting hanging out with an old friend from college 6 months ago, and they got married 4 months later, she is now married 2 months.I had planned on marrying her, obviously I waited too long, and this kills me. However,I think this was a desperation marriage,I think she was obsessed with getting married, and thought I wouldnt ever do it.I just found out from her best friend that she did NOT invite any of her friends to this wedding. Family has money and wedding was big (many people), so that $$ was not problem.She wrote a email to her friends,said she didnt invite them because she didnt want ME to find out about the details of her wedding and ME get more upset. They were pissed off. Ladies, does this make sense? Was she embarassed? This is her wedding! And her friends not there?Why?
2007-05-07 02:46:53 · 5 answers · asked by horace2311 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to move on and not wonder why she didnt invite her friends. That is between them and her not you and them and her. Get over her.
2007-05-07 02:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married is the most memorable day in any brides life. Women are about show-n-tell...We like show what others don't have and hope they will tell all their friends...
It's sounds like she was embarrassed, not only by the way she did things and acted towards her friends. And then to sent them an email explaining why she did what she did was very tacky on her part... Honesty speaking, if she didnt love you, then she shouldnt have a problem telling you that she has moved on with her life. Clearly, she knows what she did was wrong and she doesnt know how to come at you now...If I was in your shoes, I would kindly send her an email or letter expressing your feeling about her and the way she handle you'll relationship.
2007-05-07 03:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not conclude that this was a desperation marriage. She may actually have finally found "Mr. Right," and knew it the minute she met him. It happens. It actually happened to me over 30 years ago. I was classy enough to tell my ex boyfriend I was getting married, but not everyone has the ability to do that. Maybe she wants to start a new life with this guy and so she decided not to invite all her old friends.
2007-05-07 02:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HONESTLY SHE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO KNOWS
WHY SHE DID NOT INVITE ANY OF HER FRIENDS.
AND HER FRIENDS SHOULD NOT WORRY AND
LOOSE ANY SLEEP OVER IT. MAYBE SHE WAS
EMBARRESED OR SOMETHING ELSE, BUT
LIKE I SAID ONLY SHE KNOWS................ DON'T
WORRY ABOUT IT. IT WAS HER LOSS TO NOT
HAVE ANYONE CLOSE TO HER THERE WITH
HER.......
2007-05-07 02:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you concerned about this? You've lost this woman. Get on with your life!
2007-05-07 02:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋