what do i do anout my boyfriend talkin to other girls out of state through text messaging?

Question

i have a boyfriend and we have been together for 9 months. i dont think he is happy with me but he says he is and when he is with me he acts like he is, but he had been texting other girls from out of state. but i trust him with my life & all. he tells me that he talks to them because when he gets mad at me he needs someone to talk to about his problems

Answer 1

LOL! Sorry its just not good, very, very bad really. Yea there is no reason in heck he would talk to ladies he doesn't know very well about his exsisting relationship unless he was hoping to use it as a way to meet other ladies. Besides that you can read people instincts and see whats going on, and your right to worry! Let him go, actions speck louder then words. Also you guys might not get so mad at each other if he wasn't wasting his time relating to them, and not you. Yea classic signs of get the heck out of there. Or confront him about how much bs that sounds like and see what he says. He should have best friends to talk to, not just girls from another state. And that aside if one was an actual friend he would feel tempted to use there name, since he doesn't, seems he is trying to hide you from them..... I wonder why? ;)