my husband and i are seperated because he is mad about me being pregnant and he wanted me to have an abortion...he hit me the other day so he is gone..im going to the police today..he just called and said he doesnt feel good and wants me to take him to the emergency room..i feel something isnt right..i dont want to be parnoid but what should i do?
2007-05-07 01:05:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have nothing good to say about this jerk if he wants to beat on women you should not be expected to help him, if he can call you he can call for an ambulance him self.
You need to have yourself checked out and make sure no harm was done to the baby or you and so there is a report of this on file and you need to go to the Police and have him charged and a restraining order put on him as soon as possible.
Do not put up with anymore of this, it scares the hell out of me that next time you just may end up dead, mark my word there will be a next time for these type keep doing it unless you put a stop to it and do something about it and NOW don't wait.
This just makes me totally sick, why doe's this type of **** have to keep happening, Violence will get you no where.
2007-05-07 03:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by David R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instinct! You are doing the right thing by calling the police. You need to get away from him, far away for yours and your babys safety. Why didnt you go to the police the second it happened instead of waiting a couple of days? If he is well enough to pick up the phone then tell him to call an ambulance to come get him. He is trying to have some type of control over you. Dont let him!
2007-05-07 01:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by kissbutnevertell 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would your husband be mad about you being pregnant, when he is just responsible for birth control as you are? Even under the best circumstances, married women get pregnant! Since he has separated from you and left you to manage on your own, let him get to the emergency room on his own. You would be wise to go to the police as you've planned, so they'll have it on record that he's tried to harm you. This is a serious situation, so don't play around with it.
2007-05-07 01:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont trust him now rather get his adress where hes at and get the abulance services to him as the might have other idead instore for you and the unborn baby, after making the call to get help to him go tho the police station and make your case against him after all of that you can phone the hospital to find out what the problem was and if you realy need to see him at the hospital take a friend with. Dont trust a abuser they have wierd ideas in their little minds
2007-05-07 01:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with most of the other answers given here!! Go to the police and report his a**!! He should be in jail (or worse). If you feel that he might actually be ill and needs medical attention then call an ambulance for him to his address, but DO NOT go over to his place and/or see him!! He has hit you once, he WILL hit you again!! Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but he will do it again-unless he gets some help.
2007-05-07 01:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly not trust him. If he hit you because he does not want your child, who knows what else he is capable of! If you think there may be any real need for him to go to an emergency room, either get someone you trust and can rely on to go with you, or phone for an ambulance to take him. Do NOT allow yourself to be alone with him. Follow your gut feeling, it is normally there for a reason. I would suggest that if you feel there is a chance of his problem being sorted out, and that is what you want,you go for counseling before being alone with him again. I hope everything goes well for you.
2007-05-07 01:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you he would love your baby to, if he isn't the father (if he is, sorry if i offended you by saying otherwise) but i could see why he would be mad. Even though, it doesn't give him the right to hit you. My father used to beat my mother and i can tell you one thing, it only gets worse and we finally packed our bags and ran away. you need to find someone for you. If you love him it will be hard but if you don't leave now, you will regret it later on down the road. oh and yes you should see a doctor or emergency depending on how hard and where he hit you.
2007-05-07 01:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Change of Venue (Not In Use) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your plan, file a police report, get a restraining order, then file for a divorce. Tooo many Lacy and Connor scenarios have happened the past few years. You don't need to end up one of them. He's a big boy, he can find his way to a hospital or call 911 to have him a ride there.
2007-05-07 01:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not go, do not get in the car with him, do not meet him, do not accept his calls. Get to the police ASAP, report the beating and have them arrest his "sorry butt". Do not bail him out, do not feel sorry for him, etc.
You need to protect yourself and your unborn child. If you let him back into your life after what he did, then you are giving him the thought that he could get away with hitting you again.
PLEASE take care of yourself and your unborn child.
2007-05-07 01:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by Patty G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police and then find a safe place for you to live. Do not put yourself in front of your husband alone. Your instincts are right.
2007-05-07 01:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋