I was talking with a friend who reckons that every time a man and a woman seem to disagree on any little thing... that it is a sign of attraction, a sign that they are attracted to each other, and that this little battle that goes on between them is purely sexual magnatism...she calls it sexual tension lol....
my freind said she has experienced this with some at work,,,,, and guess what?,,,,, all she could talk about is how good the intimacy between them was, but that alone is not a basis for a good relationship, surely this kind of relationship would become too intense.
I'm not sure, but i like when me and my man agree on some things than to disagree, i think i understand what she means.... what do you think? any truth in there somewhere?
2007-05-06 22:31:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I know what your friend actually means...Seen it happen to me personally actually. It's kinda wrestling in bed you know what I mean!? It might be also a hidden fight for power as to know who could actually run the show between the 2 ~ Get it?
2007-05-06 22:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sherluck 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think when you disagree that way about every little thing...thats just something that happens at the beginning...some relationships start off by being amazed at how much both parties have in common with each other and some start off being attracted to the other person because, even though they are your complete opposite you cant help but be intrigued by them....but i think thats just how it is at the beginning of relationships...later on, after you´ve dated for a while and know that you actually like each other and you get more serious, you will need to have some things you agree on too because...otherwise it will eventually come to a point one day where you just wont be able to stay together anymore because neither of you can be happy doing things in the same way....so i think that its best when you can disagree on some things but agree on some others aswell...a balance is always a good thing....
2007-05-07 06:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont find any truth in what your friend has said. Maybe the man really does not agree with her, but for some reason she is aroused by that and then pursues him...well, a guy will pretty much forget about anything that has happened if a woman is offering herself to him.
I think that arguments are inevitable...even with the person of your dreams. but what shows a true connection is how fast the arguments can be ended. relationships that have the best chance of lasting are when the people involved are able to forgive and forget quickly, rather than linger on small, insignificant disagreements.
2007-05-07 05:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by db 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's a good sign, either. They seem to disagree often, and what would be the attraction in that? I don't understand because at some point, I feel that resentment would set in, and one or both of them would find a reason to shut down to avoid the confrontations. How exausting that would be!
2007-05-07 11:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are not going to agree on everything. If my lady doesn't agree on anything she would need some attitude adjustment. Fortunately Grassy has the tools to make the adjustments and in the end the impressions will overcome the spanking.
2007-05-07 10:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will say your friend is WRONG. I know a woman through work and she and I do NOT get along at all. And I will NEVER be attracted to her in the least. I do NOT like her in the least, and I suppose the easiest way for me to describe it would be to say she could be dying of thirst in the desert and I would give her the sweat off my B@LLS.
2007-05-07 05:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This'll blow the concept out of the water. In the weeks leading up to hubby's departure from Chez Tish, we couldn't agree on the colour of the sky, let alone anything else. Sexual tension didn't come into it. The thought of him being anywhere near me in that context makes my skin crawl. Sexual tension my ar$e.....
2007-05-07 05:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by Tish P 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
nope not true...
...so if you were to meet up with someone who looks like the hunchback of Nortradame...and you both had a disagreement about which breakfast cereal tasted the best...
..then does that mean you find him attractive and want to sleep with him?
(Remember this is an unattractive disfigured, short, hunchback, antisocial guy now)...but in your friends eyes you both want to rip each others clothes of and make passionate love under the stars...that is a load of rubbish!..
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..people have disagreements for the simple reason that every1 is different.
...Pure And Simple.
2007-05-07 05:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful - 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think that your answer lies in whether or not you care enough to argue. if you really have no feelings towards a person who dissagrees with you, you just let it go because you don't care. It is when you feel the need to bring them around to your side of an issue that your true colors show.
2007-05-07 05:40:52 · answer #9 · answered by guidot2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are as many kinds of relationships as there are people. Personally, I'm a lover not a fighter.
2007-05-07 05:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by John M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋