whats the best age for a person to have kids. i say the younger the better. cause if u have a kid at age of 30. you may not be able to see ur grandkids right ?.lets say 30. ur son/daughter got married at age of 30 that will make u 60.. get it ?
im planing to have kids at age of 28 max.
and i want SEVEN KIDS!!!!!... so no one feels lonely...
what do u think of my idea ? lol
2007-05-06 22:07:46 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm 39, married with no kids. I am unable to have any children but I would've loved to back in my 20's or early 30's cause I loved kids and use to babysit for people all the time. Now that I'm older, I have gotten used to not having any kids and hubby and I are pretty set in our ways and love travelling so I guess it was meant to be. But if you want 7 kids, I sugest you start early :)
2007-05-07 00:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 40 now and I have three kids, one aged 17, one 13 and one aged 9. My children like it that I'm not as old as some of their friends parents and my daughter can borrow my clothes so there is an up side. I think perhaps I should have left it a bit longer as I spent most of my life looking after them, when you have a child you always worry when you ago away that they will be ok.
I personally like children a lot and as a teacher have had experience in this area. Children are wonderful but are a big responsibility and very expensive. The more children you have, the less of your time each one gets and financially you cannot afford to give them very much if you have seven unless you have a lot of money.
I am very busy with my 3 and think its enough to have. I have them and each one has their own friends which I have in the house, not to mention my nephews, neices and friends kids so I would say your being a little too brave. When you have kids your life changes forever so think it well through and dont worry they won't be lonely if you have less, I promise!
2007-05-06 22:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sam k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my opinion, I think it is best to wait until you are sure you can afford 7 kids. Without money, it's hard. I know. I have been down that road. I was 19 when my first daughter was born, she is now 17. My second daughter was born when I was 21, she is now 15. I was 32 when my son was born and 2 years after that another daughter. As for seeing my grandkids...I'm in no hurry to become a Grandma. When it happens it happens, and if I am here to see them, all the better.
2007-05-06 22:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want one child maybe two, a boy and a girl. And maybe an adopted child. I see no prob with having kids at the age of 30. Sometimes kids can feel lonely even with plenty of siblings. I think your idea is pretty cool. Just b/c a person has a kid at 30 doesn't not mean that they might not see their grandchild.
2007-05-06 22:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by taireninaugh18 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wanted 3 but, ended up with 2. I started having kids at 29, and I think that was a good age. The best age to have kids is different for different people. I think I will be around to dance at my grandkids weddings.....:)
2007-05-06 22:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 kids 2 boys 1 girl I had my first when I was 22, I'm 30 now, my boys are 8 and 6 and my little girl is 3
2007-05-06 22:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've got three kids. I had my first at 21, then next one at 24 and the third one at the age of 30. If you are going to have seven kids then I would start early and have them close together too and they should grow up to be best friends.
2007-05-06 22:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by sharonlee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have 0 kids. I want only .85 children, not a whole child. Only the body and brain, not the tantrums.
Best age to have children is 25. Yes, I see your point. 28 is fine age to have kids. 7 kids? Good luck, good point. Good idea.
2007-05-06 22:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Shae C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I never wanted children. I never planned on getting married and wouldn't do one without the other.
Ended up married, and had one child. I'd have preferred two, but it didn't work out that way.
My goal was to have any children I wanted before 30. In retrospect, 35 would have been just as good.
2007-05-06 22:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Kaia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 kids, Micah is 5 and Ava is 1--I had Micah when I was 17, and trust me, younger is not better. I don't want any more. My husband has 3 boys by his ex wife, then Micah, so Ava is the baby girl and she's enough for anyone by herself, she's so damn spoiled.
best advice--wait and see what you want to do with your life before running off to have a bunch of kids you can't support yet. It'll be better for you and your kids.
:o)
2007-05-06 22:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by dmarie2101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋