embarrassed?

Question

when i was 14 i went out with this girl and we were fooling around and she took my pants of and then laughed at my penis
it only 31/2 inches hard and then said her brothers was bigger and she made him show me it was like 5 1/2 inches and he was only 12. I ran out and never let a girl friend see it any more i end up breaking up with them first im 18 and its only still 4 inches and i dont want to have any more girlfriend because im to shy of it what can i do to over come this.

Answer 1

I KNOW how you feel, I'm 24 and only 4 1/2 in. hard. luckily I have a girlfriend who accepts all of me. I have a hard time taking a shower with her and while we have sex, but she is really good to me. I have had hard times with other girls, though none have said anything or laughed at me. What I'm trying to say is don't let one moment in life mess up the rest of it for you. Be patient and look for a caring, understanding, non judgmental girl and you should be fine. Yes I still get embarrassed when I'm naked in front of her but I try not to let it get to me. I'm sure Ill get over it. I know she loves me and I'm sure you'll find someone who understands you and will love everything about you. This is hard for me, I don't really tell anyone or talk about this kind of stuff to anyone, so I hope I can ease some of the worry that you have and remember that your a man no matter how big it is.

Answer 2

Mine is only 4 inches too.....but diameter isn't everything.
Just kidding- I don't know if you're serious or not.
You can certainly get the job done with 4 inches, but I would also highly recommend becoming skilled at the oral pleasuring of a woman.
I'm only 5 1/2 or maybe 5 3/4 on a good day. I've never had any complaints, but what I can't do with my hips, I do with my lips.!!

Answer 3

Women are sexually arroused mainly via the clitoris, and stimulating this area has nothing to do with the length of your penis. A lot of the stimulation to this area is by playing with the clitoris with your hands, your mouth/tongue, and your pubic symphysis/rubbing against your body. There are so many highly sensual areas on a body that focusing on length would be a waste of energy. Too long, and the penis can just ram into the cervix, which is highly uncomfortable for women anyways. Length/size is overrated, and if you don't know how to use your entire body and penis, who cares how long the penis is?

ps That girlfriend is pretty horrible, and I wonder why she knows the length of her brother's penis?

Answer 4

You might be very surprised to know that the average guy isn't much different than you. Maybe a short course of counseling would help you. I have a boyfriend who is very close to your size and he's a great lover. If you are a good guy and take the trouble to treat a woman well, you'll be in demand.

Answer 5

Well, I think its really not the size....its what you do with it that really matters! Honestly, in an adult relationship that should be the last thing that matters. As a woman, I would rather feel cared about, pampered and have a man that really listens to me and treated me with respect then a have a jerk with a big penis. Please focus on things that really matters. Obviously that girl was immature and didn't care about how you might feel. Not all girls are like that, I promise.

Answer 6

i heard an average penis is between 4 and 6 ... truthfully there are ppl out there that are just wanting to b with u 4 that one reson... what my question 4 you is . do u care.. do u want sex ... if u want to b with someone 4 more then that then this isnt a big problem... if u are always horny and think u wanna b wild and have sex with everyone .then i duno ... there are alot of other ways to make a girl *** so if thats what scaires u then dont worry bout that ... i dont think its a big deal AT ALL

Answer 7

Well that girl was definitely stupid and VERY immature. I mean I wouldn't care how big or how small my boyfriend's penis is. If I really love him and like him for who he is I shouldn't care about stupid stuff like that. You shouldn't be embarassed because of that stupid girl...and don't give up on love it's dumb you don't wanna have a girlfriend...I'm sure you'll find a girl who will love you just the way you are.

Answer 8

damn bro thats is pretty embarrassing but don't worry. Many people say that is not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean. Well thats the way you should see things, look for a girl that is not interested on how big you pennis is but for who you are. If you still feel insecure about yourself try the pennis enlarger pill kit.
http://www.male-wellness.com/

Answer 9

Sorry I can't answer from experience, as I don't own a penis. Let me assure you, there are women out there that don't look at the size of the penis to determine the size of the man within. Please don't let this deter you from having girlfriends. Find someone to talk to, unlike these that have posted ahead of me, and vent how you feel. Good luck.

Answer 10

Men are like savage beasts - they attack the vulnerable.
Sigh
Women can just plain be bitches

There are ways to adressing this - you first might want to see a psychologist (for dealing with the emotional issues) - then a plastic surgeon - yes this is something that can be corrected surgically.