I really want to mix with people and make friends, but the problem is people find me boring cos i don't have much to say or talk about.How can i improve this situation. I dunno but everyone either ignores and pays no attention to me.Whenever i talk to people the conversation only lasts 30seconds and to be honest i don't have any friends. Help will be appreciated, on what i can do.
2007-05-06 13:04:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find a hobby. Then join a club. That way ppl there share the same interest as you. If ur learning, you can always strike up a conversation on how to do a certain thing. sports, gardening, art, knitting, learn a new language, etc.
2007-05-06 13:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by Amy L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see, this one is quite the dilemma
Working off the information you have supplied I can make 2 guestimations.
1) you are too shy to really open up to people. Its not uncommon, usually caused by self-esteme issues (mind the spelling im better at talking then spelling). I was in this situation through highschool but I got over it.
It took me longer then most to come out of my shell. Just say whats on your mind and to hell with the conciquences (within reason dont go abusing cops or something silly :)). If you want to tell that guy he smells nice, damm well do it. You only live once so dooo iiittt.
2) I was going to say you arnt curious about anything and have no interests, but I doubt that because your on here talking. Perhaps seek some things to talk about, even if its simple. I bet just a spoonfull of courage will make the conversaion go on (omg i made a mary poppins reference *.*)
Whatever the affliction i wish u luck
2007-05-06 13:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people love to talk, others love to listen. It takes all kinds. Determine your interests or expertise and find places where others with similar interests hang out. Try the library. Find the sections of the library that contain books about the topics you like. When you see someone else who seems to share the same interests, say hello. Do not try to become someone you are not. Be yourself.
2007-05-06 13:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by rlkitz@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join sports or have a party for the up coming summer.
2007-05-06 13:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself have only three friends, TOM, DICK and HARRY.
2007-05-06 13:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋