Im 13 and i masturbate and when i do i fantsize about girls. But im not really into them. I think some are hot but not alot. Sometimes i think im attracted to both sexes. Is this normal for my age? Im not gay cause i fantasize about girls and i do wanna have sex with them and im not feminine
I came accross this site
http://members.optusnet.com.au/~austbua/...
2007-05-06 12:57:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok thanks!
2007-05-06 13:00:06 · update #1
Its normal
2007-05-06 13:02:28 · update #2
Well so far ive read everywhere that this is normal for my age. Im not really attracted to the same sex i find some good looking I would never date a man are have sex with them. And if you think its un normal then ur not normal
2007-05-06 13:05:11 · update #3
yeah its normal
all your little horomes are raging
its a part of puberty
2007-05-06 12:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by MF 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem just allittle older. From what i looked at, dont worry about it. My attractions have been changing like crazy and at first it was like my main focus but after a while you just dont care and relize it will probably change and if not youll worry about it later. I cant stress enough not to worry about it, i have it just like you maybe even worse. IF you think about it, being bi isnt that bad because at least you have an attraction to girls, and can still get married (that is if you worried about being labeled) to a girl, and still like guys. Its fine, and if you see things start to change, still dont worry about it. I have read that guys can be attracted to guys when they are looking to be more masculine. Just think about who you want to be and who you see yourself with, and the answer lays there. Like i said, it will all work out, good luck
2007-05-06 13:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not a cop or TV show producer trolling for perverts, you're normal. You will need more time and experience with relations with both sexes before you really can be sure.
2007-05-06 13:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by thylawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a dead link.
Yes, you're perfectly normal, and nobody cares if you're gay anyway. What does being feminine have to do with anything? Stop seeing yourself in terms of gender, and just get on with life.
Shouldn't you be doing homework now?
2007-05-06 13:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are who you are. Dont worry about what society thinks or categorizes everyone as. That is you, thats what makes you unique. If we were all the same the world would be a very boring place.
2007-05-06 13:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by amber 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are still very young. Probably just hitting puberty. Give yourself some time and see what happens over the next year or so.
2007-05-06 13:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's pretty normal for a 13 year old
2007-05-06 13:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by bobo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe TV now days makes your mind messed up!
Just be you...
See who attracts you when your 18...
Or better yet, once your on your own in the "real" world!
2007-05-06 13:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uncertain, yet my Auntie constantly advised me to constantly pay interest around the nipple section, and that if something didnt look established, to get it regarded at. So i could see a doctor if I have been you.
2016-10-14 23:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol u crack me up yea man its fine... and remember its only u who controls ur happiness so don't worry about wat other ppl r doing and dont try to b like them czu the ppl u no rite now u wont no in 10 years garentteed, so just forcuse on wat really matterz like school get decent grades and chill with ur people and everthign will fall into place
2007-05-06 13:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anjali P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋