Ok My friends say that I havent really had my 1st kiss yet. because the only thing dat I did as a kiss was a peck and they say that thats whats u do to ur mom. They say a real 1st kiss involves toung. Are they Right?
2007-05-06 11:31:26 · 27 answers · asked by lona1417 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Im 15 for those who dont know
2007-05-06 11:44:56 · update #1
That depends, on what?
on how you value your own criteria and the one from your friends. A peck is a kiss, if you value it a lot, then consider it your first kiss. Dont let yourself be influenced by what your friends say. I assume that the criteria your friends use for a kiss is a french kiss (a kiss involving tongue). It depends, it's all up to you.
You live by yourself, not by the experience of others. It's up to you on how you value your own experiences....
Live forever and stay young!!!
2007-05-06 11:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Alberto Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what your friends think, it matters what you think.
I would tend to agree with them that a peck is not a real kiss, but you can kiss someone with having to use your tongue to clean out your partner's teeth. French Kissing, which is when the tongue is used, is a fairly recent innovation in the US and was unknown 40 years ago.
Virginity is a cold hard yes or no condition. If the hymen is broken then you are no longer a virgin. But, kissing is a little more variable. It depends on the passion involved. If you feel that the peck had passion behind it then it could have been your first kiss. But, if the peck was like one your mother would give you then it your friends are right it was only an expression of friendship. What matters if how DO YOU feel about it.
2007-05-06 11:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they are right a real kiss does involve tounge. You have 2 french kiss 4 it 2 be real
2007-05-06 11:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Bree-z 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No thats not true. A kiss is a kiss no matter if theres toung or not. And you sound kind of young so I'm glad that it didnt involve your tongue because you sound way too young for that.
2007-05-06 11:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by STF11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking this question means that you are to young to be doing such an intimate act. When you ready to use your T O N G U E while kissing someone you will know ... in the meantime concentrate on your homework.
2007-05-06 11:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it was a kiss the 1st kiss with toung is french kissing or making out but yes you have been kissed
2007-05-06 11:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur first real kiss doesnt have to involve tongue....but it cant be a peck on the cheek.
2007-05-06 11:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by corkydw89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A peck counts if there was a bit of romance involved. Your friends don't know what they are talking about.
2007-05-06 11:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
and a 'real' kiss does not need tongue
a peck is a peck
and it is sweet and real
but a 'kiss'
involves a degree of passion
don't worry about it
you've got plenty of kissin' time ahead of you
when you get to really makkin' out
you'll know it
2007-05-06 11:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by mrlucky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't have to involve the tongue. You first real kiss is one you will probably remember. Maybe it will be from someone you have strong feelings for.
2007-05-06 11:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by smilingredangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋