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Question

im pregnant ryt and mum doesnt want me to have the baby she wants me to get rid of it personally i dont want to my consultation is on the 10th of may and my 1st tablet is on the 17th but i dont even no how far i've gone my 1st scan is on the 24th but mum cant wait that long as she wants this over and done with before dad gets backs from his holiday see im muslim and our religion says no sex before getting married which is fair enough but it also says it prhibits abortions i dont agree with abortions anyway and i want this baby so badly but mum is terrified oof what dad may say the father of this child is 16 i no i can look after a child even tho mum says u cant look after urself let alonme another life see i have learning difficulty aspurgus syndrome (form of Autisum) cereble pulsey spina biffida scoliosis but u no im still here living my life and im 21 what do i do please help

Answer 1

I applaud you for not wanting an abortion. It might be hard for your father at first. Plase don't have an abortion because you motehr wants you to and she's making you. This will severely damage your relationship. Start looking into adoption and resources for pregnant teens

Answer 2

If you are 21 then it is your decision on whether to keep the baby or not...you are no longer a minor your parents can not make you have an abortion. I do not agree with abortions either. Even if you go ahead and have the baby and can not handle being a mom yet...you can always place the child for adoption at least this way the child has life and was not killed. Just keep in mind that it is your choice and your choice alone. There is help out there to help support you and your child...you could get all kinds of benefits that help out a lot. If you can 100% care for this child then you should. But no matter what you should still have it. I am 24 and am taking care of my first child...at times it is hard but when ever he smiles at you all the hard times are so worth it. hope this helps

Answer 3

I'm sorry but if you are having a baby and there is no incest or rape involved and there is no harm to your health then I do not believe you should have an abortion! No matter your religion....just because you had sex, it's not the babies fault. That baby is an innocent human who has the right to have a chance to live! You can give he or she up for adoption! At least that way you will be able to live with yourself. I will pray your circumstances change enough for you to realize an abortion is the worst way out of this!

Answer 4

it is your body and you are 21, your parents really don't have a say so anymore. but you should have thought about getting pregnant before because of your illness. i'm not saying you shouldn't have a child, but keep in mind, will you be able to keep up with a child? they can be quite a handful at times. if you were to get ill, who would look after the child? is the guy going to marry you and make a family? raising children by yourself can be very overwhelming. i know, because i'm doing it myself.

Answer 5

I am scared for you. It does not sound like you can make these decisions for yourself and it also doesn't sound like the grown-ups in your life are helping much. That is a very extensive (and unlikely) list of disabilities, ...do you have social worker a vocational rehab. counselor? Maybe they can help.

If your mother is scared of your father, I would be too. It doesn't sound like you can care for this child. Maybe adoption or maybe your mother is trying to do what she thinks is right for you.

Anyway this turns out, you need to learn about birth control. Planned Parenthood can help.

Answer 6

I think you should keep the baby even though you made a mistake you mom should not try and hide this from your dad. It is also wrong to kill something that happen an a accident

Answer 7

You probably won't be told anything different than you were when you asked this question last week. Maybe you should read those answers again.

Answer 8

ya