Are you or have you ever been jealous of your daughter in any way? (examples: her father gives her more attention, she's more talented than you were, she gets better grades than you did, etc.)
My mother has ALWAYS put me down (calling me a s**t, a w***e, fat, ugly, stupid, etc. and she's been doing this since I was a young child) and everyone in the family and all my friends say that it's because she's jealous of me...I don't get that at all though how could a parent be jealous of their own child?
2007-05-06 07:09:04 · 9 answers · asked by Love always, Kortnei 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No never Sweetie and I don't like it when Mothers use name calling to bring down their kids. I have no respect for them when they stoop to that level. I have never ever done anything like that to my 2 daughters it is simply not in my nature. I love my kids unconditionally no matter what happens in life, I will be there. It is my job as a mother to make sure they have a happy, healthy, loving, environment to grow and thrive! I hope things really turn around for you and you Mom and you are able to benefit the loving care that you so rightly deserve and need! Warmest regards LadyLinda
2007-05-06 07:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my daughter does better then me in anything she does, which she does, that only make me even more proud that I am her mom. I don't get jealous of her I am her mom..My husband gives the world to her and I wouldn't want it any other way..A parent may get jealous because they live their life through you, and the point is "its your life" not the parents.A parent should be there for the child and show support even if the child is wrong..When my daughter has success in what she does it shows me that I did a great job as a mom..
2007-05-06 14:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom was raised by a jealous mother....she in turn became very well practiced at being passive aggressive. My mom says nearly the same things to me that your mom does only she uses nice words. Why they are that way, may never be known. What matters the most for you and I is how we raise our own daughters.
2007-05-06 14:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a parent of a young girl and I would never ever talk to her like that. I want for her to do better than me, I will sit with her and go through all her school stuff read to her constintly and encourage her to be the best she can be. That is part of a parents job. Whatever is going on with your mother sounds like a serious issue that she has, I know its hard but try not to take to much of it onboard. Just be the best you can be.
2007-05-06 14:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by kalihas_mum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate that for you! To answer your question, no, I'm not jealous of my daughter. I want everything for her and am so proud of the things she does accomplish. I can't imagine being like that in the least bit.
2007-05-06 14:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mother needs counselling. Her behavior is odd. Verbal abuse is not healthy.
l suggest you seek professional help too since you've been treated that way for years.
l wish you peace of mind.
2007-05-06 14:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone like that. You have feel sorry for them. I think a lot of it is them thinking about something they never had and seeing their child having that thing.
2007-05-06 14:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by Caribbean Belle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's possible that she is jealous... my guess would be she's just a whack job
2007-05-06 14:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my moms not like that with me
2007-05-06 14:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by BOOM, roasted. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋