About masturbation?

Question

I'm 13 and I'll turn 14 in July 22 and I masturbate most of the time and I don't know if it's evil or bad or something can some one tell me about it??

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with masturbation! There are no ill effects. It is not against the law. It is not immoral. It is a perfectly normal healthy thing done by 98% of men (the other two percent are liars.) I masturbate once or twice a day. Usually it consists of manual stimulation of my penis. I don't normally require any visual assistance but certainly visuals will generate the desire to masturbate.
You can be assured that:
- you won't develop pimples, acne or zits;
- your penis will not get shorter;
- you will not be less intelligent;
- you will not grow hair on your palms;
- you will not lose hair or go bald;
- you will not go to hell (at least because of masturbating);
- you will not lose your mind;
- you will not become sterile;
- your penis will not fall off;
- your testicles will not decrease in size;
- your chance of being struck by lightning is not increase;
- Sperm is not "dirty" or "gross" or 'disgusting".
But you will be:
- your penis will likely become stronger;
- more relaxed;
- smiling most of the time;
- a perfectly normal man;
- and you will still produce enough eggs in your sperm.
So keep IT up and continue to enjoy. !

Answer 2

No. It is not evil. Most teenagers your age begin masturbating at your age or even before. It is just a natuaral thing. Don't feel bad about it. I wouldn't advertise it too many people though. Have fun! LOL :) Just messin' with ya!

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with masturbation, it's GREAT! Everyone does it (male and female) it is good for you to satisfy yourself. It also keeps your prostate healthy. So masturbate all you want, and don't feel guilty.

Answer 4

hi yuan!

Yes, masturbation is a sin. Sex in itself is not evil because it was God who created it for the purpose of procreation and for the enjoyment of married couples. Hence, sex and its purpose and pleasures were created for marriage, and any use of it outside of marriage is contrary to God’s purpose and is sin. The Catechism of the Catholic Church puts it well:

"The Magisterium of the Church… and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action. The deliberate use of the sexual facility, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." (CCC, 2352)

Masturbation is not only a sin, but it also deprives us of real, healthy relationships with real people. Most people do this act because of a deeper need. Am I depressed? Am I lonely? Am I afraid of meeting new people? Ask yourself.

God wants to deliver you from this problem, but you have to fulfill your part of the deal. First of all, you should do something similar to asking us this question… open up to someone else. Try bringing it up with a more mature Christian whom you trust, confide in, and who can help, counsel, and pray with you. He can also be someone you can be accountable to.

Secondly, avoid whatever it is that might lead you to fantasize. Whether it be pictures, magazines, websites, movies, or whatever. Rather, instead of taking in all these images into your head, replace them with something godly. Busy yourself with ministry or join a youth group (if you don’t have one yet) where you can channel your passions the right way… for the Lord. This way, you will develop better, healthier relationships with real people, and not just in fantasy. Start with these two things and - with God’s help - you’re on your way to being freed from bondage.

"For just as you presented the parts of your bodies as slaves to impurity and to lawlessness for lawlessness, so now present them as slaves to righteousness for sanctification." (Romans 6: 19)

Answer 5

This is not normal, the ejackulation come from your brain mostly, so it is triggered by what you are thinking so,saying a prayer is the best way to stop this habit. The very Best is the Lord's Prayer the Our Father. It goes like this : Our Father who art in heaven hallow be thy name, thy Kingdom come, thy will be done ,on earth as it is in Heaven, give us this day our daily bread and forgive us or trespasses, as we foregive those who trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil, for Thine is the Kingdom, the Power, and the Glory forever Amen... When you sleep sometimes maybe once a month it is normal to release alittle sperm, that is very comon, if u see a very great lookin chick, this also a good time to say that prayer. God Bless you and your Family P.S. Going to a BiBle Based church is the beat way to Get to Heaven so you can spend Eterity with Him and all His Glory.

Answer 6

Dude, all men/boys do it. They might be shy to tell you, but they do it. Also it is NOT evil!!! It is good and feels amazing.

Answer 7

if we weren't supposed to masturbate we would have our genitals on the middle of our backs

Answer 8

is okay to masturbate but you cant masturbate too much it will cause kidney failure...you can search website...your hand willstart to shake after masterbathing because your kidney weak

Answer 9

Nearly everyone does it - those who say they dont are probably lying.

Answer 10

its not bad its normal and dont be ashamed all boys and men do it