English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

Its wierd. I cant approach people nor can I start conversation with them. If they talk to me or ask me to sit with them or whatever Im usually fine but you know I can't make myself do it. And I think its why people think I'm wierd and not interested in them. Because on this class trip this girl asked me to sit with her and friends at lunch but when we got on the bus I couldnt make myself go sit with them so I sat by myself the whole time. You know I think they expect me to do more but I seriously just dont have it in me its like I need constant support or else I like fall into depression and think they all hate me.

2007-05-06 04:04:12 · 5 answers · asked by leena 4 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

5 answers

It sounds like you might be a 'sensitive', very attune to the emotions of others. Search "sensitive' or "empath" and see if it rings a bell.

2007-05-06 04:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by American Spirit 7 · 0 0

Sounds like maybe you have a touch of social phobia. There are anti anxiety drugs that make a person much more outgoing. If you don't do it the first time, it becomes harder and harder because now they know something is wrong. Now they will wonder. And every time you don't do it, you think they are wondering more and more. When all of this anxiety could have been avoided if you just right from the get go sat with them. Remember next time that if you don't do it the first time, this whole pattern will start and it will be very frustrating for you.

2007-05-06 11:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I deal with things like this, and have recently been seeing a counselor. She says she thinks I have an Anxiety Disorder. I have trouble talking on the phone, meeting new people or being in large groups.
Perhaps you could speak to someone about it at school, or tell your parents and talk to your Dr about your anxiety. There is nothing to be ashamed of.

2007-05-06 11:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by Beverly B 6 · 1 0

You have what is referred to as "Social anxiety Disorder".

Go out more... make new friends and join a club or take up a hobby you are good at! :)

Don't worry, the older you get... the less anxious you will become... Goodluck! :)

2007-05-06 14:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by Blazin'22 4 · 0 0

that sounds like me,everyone says im "depressed" or "in pain" but really im just shy lol.

2007-05-06 11:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by AFI Obsessed Girl 3 · 0 0

fedest.com, questions and answers