Anyone have answers to that?
I'm so fuken hurt, I dont want it to be over, why is it over...why is she playing with me....telling me one day how much she loves me and the next that she doesnt feel that way anymore....why is she confusing me...giving me false hope....:(
2007-05-06 03:55:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
it hurts to think of her losing feelings for me.....it hurts to let go....it hurts tot hink we are falling apart....she repeatadly just asks for frindship which makes me think its maybe all she wanted all along, it hurts me to think she is gonna be with other people but me....its not eazy at all....im taking it bad ...tonite for the first time i cried infront of a friend...i never do that......but she msged me while i was in a car with my friend..it was like a thunder hittin me...and i started crying n my friend was like pulled over...shes never seen me cry :(
2007-05-06 04:11:56 · update #1
false hope are what you give yourself.
i mean, probably in the first place, if you didnt pin such high hope, you wouldnt be this disappointed and lost now. I just got over a 3 yrs bf who tells me he didnt love me. i really can understand..it is not easy, even when you seem fine, at the back of your head, its stil her that lingers. be cruel to yourself, for once, and move on. give yourself an upset period. she probably found someone new, its just that you are living in denial. ask yourself...
Move on, everything will come to past soon..
what you just added is what i felt when i was still with my guy. at that point of time, i really thought i couldnt live without him, its was until we broke up, then i realised that life is so much better without him. and it hurts, to think that your other half would be doing things without you in the picture anymore, but you really have to put all this aside if you want to let go..keep all this memories for the future when you are ready for it. people can encourage, people can give a thousand advices, in the end, it still lies on you, how are you going to make yourself move on and not drown yourself in misery
2007-05-06 04:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by blacked_sheep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is playing with your feelings like that, it's better to let go of her totally... You'll only keep getting hurt if you stay in contact with her...
Start all over...I know it's not going to be easy and it will still hurt for quite some time but they way it is now isn't any good either...
Good luck for the future!
2007-05-06 11:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a psychochick, playing emotional games with you. If you continue to allow her to do so, you are enabling (encouraging) her behavior.
You let go by wishing them the best for them, without what you think is 'best' for you influencing that wish. if you truly love them, you can.
2007-05-06 11:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by American Spirit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S because u love them tooooooooo much
2007-05-06 15:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by roubnidesmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋