i did some wrong things like watching **** but now i realised i was a big idiot to do that .How could i bring a happinesss in my life?i always have bad dreams that will ruin my life ?how will get rid of it? plzzz advice me i am a boy .18 years old.
2007-05-06 02:38:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
My friends also teases me sorry forget to mention that.They always stay away for me.
2007-05-06 03:13:54 · update #1
Don't think that you have done anything wrong. boys of your age will experiment lot. If you worry for all those things you cannot have time for better things.Don feel guilty conscious of something which you have done otherwise you should not have done in normal course.So be happy and think positive. You should take all your steps towards positive direction. Never allow any negative attitude towards life. If anybody force you to use or see something unwanted,be firm in your thought that you will move towards the positive direction only. Once you decide it , then you will be free from all these depression. Once in a while you can make fun of yourself for the past actions.
2007-05-06 17:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by VP K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get something in your life that isn't all about you! You could do volunteer work, start a study program that is very demanding, set some personal goals and work very hard to attain them, etc. If you have a very busy life, you don't have time to be bored -- or boring.
Find a child that needs tutoring or an older person who needs daily help, and put that person's needs ahead of meaningless "hanging out," and you will start feeling good about yourself. Enter a college program that demands every bit of your attention, and make absolutely sure you get on the Dean's List, even if that means sacrifice and being called a nerd. Your boredom will evaporate.
Happiness is something that happens to you as a side effect of working towards goals and purposes in life -- you can't set out looking for happiness and expect to find it. You can find happiness by having a child you've tutored show you a report card with all A's and B's. Get going -- do something that gives you inner peace and satisfaction, and you will forget what boredom feels like.
2007-05-06 11:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attitude is a choice. For example.
A newlywed couple just bought a new Acura MDX. On the very next day the young bride totaled it. When she called her husband the conversation went like this.
"Honey, I wrecked the Acrua"
"Are you okay?"
"Yes, but the car is totaled"
"But you are okay?"
"Yes, but the car..."
"Where are you?"
She gave directions...
"I will be right there"
Now from her experience in her own family, she expected a LOT of yelling when he got there.
When he got there, he hugged her, looked at the car and told her they were going out to dinner and acted like nothing had happened.
She was confused and asked why he was not mad.
To this he responded: "Of course I was disappointed, but that is the reason that you buy insurance. You see I can be angry that the car is wrecked, or I can be happy that you are okay. No matter which I choose, the car is wrecked, so why waste any time on anger?"
Moral...you can choose your attitude in any situation or in life.
There is an old oriental belief that emotions last 7 seconds...after that you are holding on. Choose to hold on to the good emotions.
2007-05-06 02:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
BRO,
watching a **** is not something bad, but it is offencive to others especially to your elders. Getting excited and curious about the other sex is all natural and everyone go through this same period. You may day dream about having sex with your favourite actress or the girl you like. You may be focusing more or breasts and boobs which might be coming to others attention. That is why all your friends may be ignoring you. Or they might not be ignoring you but you may feel that they are doing that. This is all frustration and this happens with everyone sooner or later in their life. What you need to do is to be cool and calm. Give respect to others and that is how you will get respect. Watch as many porns as possible, the more you watch them the sooner you will lose interest in them. just learn to be tolerant and cool will help you to a great deal.
2007-05-07 02:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by mind_freak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, watching **** can only get you so much... How to enjoy life?
Try getting out of the house more often... Take up a sport, be active, hang out with friends, start a hobby. Make the most out of everything you have, instead of jus' lounging around the house everyday!
2007-05-06 03:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by Moncho B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i be conscious of the form you sense Ive been there too,you need to work out a doctor as quickly as you may if only to offer you medicine that may assist you get through this rotten time, once I left my violent ex I and the youngsters had not something only the clothing that we stood in i became in a secure haven for months until eventually i got here across a house I didnt be conscious of everyone and my oldest daughter became beginning with a servere psychological ailment Ive under no circumstances been so on my own in my existence. yet issues will come into place as quickly as you start to sense extra perfect in your self,my innovations are with you.
2016-10-14 22:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out and play sports /love/nature/girl/and enjoy every day this is best time of life
2007-05-09 00:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start stealing things from stores then make plans how to stead them
2007-05-07 17:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by yudi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be cool...enjoy with ur friends...keep out of home...pray to god wen u go to bed...be relaxed everytime...dont be alone...
2007-05-06 03:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋