...it's the hardest thing for me to forgive myself...
2007-05-06 00:52:33 · 40 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Eric...i am still working on that one for myself...you are leagues ahead of most people, i am old enough to be your mother and still I grapple with that one.... I have practiced Buddhism for 33 years now....yes i am 53 years old...give it time, and smile angel....you have miles and miles to go!!!! YOU WILL GET IT!!! because it is so hard, you are THAT close!!!!
All MY Best,
Mistress Lioncourt
2007-05-13 23:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The hardest thing for me is to forget my past they always say start anew.Thats very true but sometimes the past haunts u Yes forgiving myself is the hardest thing to do really.Hope your talk with your manager was great
2007-05-06 01:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by legolas g/Frederich 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Eric,
If you can't forgive yourself are you sleeping with the enemy within you? To err is human to forgive is divine…even if it is to forgive yourself. For an intellect like you forgiveness should come easy. For me the hardest thing to do is to hate somebody.
2007-05-07 00:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree! I always have a hard time forgiving myself for all the dumb things that I have done. But I have learned from my mistakes and I will remember not to do them again. I can't change the past but what I do now will affect the future.
2007-05-06 15:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never truly forgive. I may let it go but if they hurt me again, I bring up every time they hurt me. I don't forgive me i just shut that away and get all touchy about if anyone brings up the thing I haven't forgiven myself for. Somehow its always easier to blame yourself and you hardly ever have to deal with it.
Sometimes I think I need someones couch.
2007-05-06 02:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in total agreement. I think of things that I have done in the past and I can not forgive myself for some of them.
2007-05-06 00:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by Marenight 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hardest thing for me is to do nothing.
2007-05-06 01:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by rkbaqaya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive then move on never to make the same mistake again
2007-05-06 11:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by tellitlikeitis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I don't know of any studies on it, but I'd be willing to bet, that the main reason a lot of us don't like ourselves is that we've done something in the past, which everyone else forgives us for, if they even remember it. But, we hang on to it and dislike or hate ourselves for doing it for the rest of our lives.
2007-05-13 12:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by jorst 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you must forgive yourself & learn to like yourself as well Eric! what you show of yourself on here you seem like a very nice kind down to earth guy so pat yourself on the back for all the good you do in life even a hello to someone is good & stop thinking about what ever it is that you dont like about yourself
2007-05-06 00:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by ausblue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋