I want to make love to other women and i got the permission from my wife to go ahead but i want her to be a part of it but she says NO. I tried a lot but she still not ready for it. I dont want to do it alone. what should i do to get her ready to be a part of it?
2007-05-06 00:25:12 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You naughty boy you want to enjoy three some sex & want your wife a part of this ? Give her a lollipop she will agree for it. Tell her next time it will be two men including you & only her in the three some game. O.K.
2007-05-06 01:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have no idea how to be a husband, or a man. You are just interested in where to put your ____. So why did you get married? You can't even have sex with your wife, if you have to go get some help.
The most disgusting part, is that she approves of your cheating and she will someday be a part of it? Well, she is nothing to respect also, because she has no idea what a wife is and you both have no clue what marriage is. There is certainly no love there.
No class, people like you are just making divorce more powerful, because you will eventually get one. I hope to God, you don't have any children.
What should you do to get her ready to be a part of it? Work hard, really HARD idiot! I know that's all you got.
2007-05-06 01:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. If she's given you permission then you're probably looking at a divorce at some point in your future. Some women say " go ahead", but they are hoping you have the sense / love / committment to not be such a twit. You certainly aren't going to be able to talk her into joining in.
Let's be brutually honest, you can't make two women happy, so she'd have to have an interest in other women. Apparently, despite your best efforts to be a total jerk, she still prefers men.
Hmm..logically, it would be better for her if you offered to bring a second man into the relationship. I think you should ask her if that would work for her. After all, she can go forever, but you have a limited shelf life, so to speak.
2007-05-06 00:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really love your wife you wouldn't be asking her to do this. If she approached you and said she wanted to do other guys in front of you would you join in. This is unhealthy and will only lead to problems. I know a couple that did this and he left her for one of the girls. Her self worth went out the window. Deep down inside she does not want you to do this and she is hoping you will not go through with it. She just agreed because shes afraid of losing you and having you do it behind her back. What you are asking her to say its OK for you to cheat. You made a commitment to her to be loyal. Don't be so shallow.
2007-05-06 04:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by jjeano661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you joking?
I'd divorce you. No questions asked. You must not love your wife if you feel the need to be with other women. And there is no forcing or making someone "see" something sexually that they don't want to do. You have two choices, respect her decisions or divorce her and find yourself a chick who swings.
2007-05-06 00:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by bostongirl_1981 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You have joined just today and asked four different questions, all convey different stage of your life. Are you playing with the answerers or just plain bored in the absence of your wife or are you a boy in lust today.
Pleasde this is a forum for the help of people. Please don't misuse it or people will stop visiting and genuine people in help will get affected.
2007-05-06 02:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by sanjay 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you. If you loved and respected your wife you would not even be thinking of doing something like that.
Doing it on your own is one thing but asking her to join is just wrong !!!! I can´t believe that she still wants to be with you !!!
2007-05-06 00:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ladybird 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Give it up! You're stupid! If u think she is giving you the o.k. you're nuts! As soon as u do that to another woman or other women, she's gonna be soo pissed at u and you won't have a relationship.
I hope u do it cause I will laugh when u r dumped on your rear end!!!
2007-05-06 12:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by londam2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do know there are ALOT of people out there who do that sort of stuff but in my opinion...you might as well sign your divorce papers now. I haven't known any couple who made it through that sort of activity without consequence...and further more, why did you even get married if you wanted to screw other women!
2007-05-06 02:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by londa627 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all u should be very thank ful to her for sharing her husband with any other woman, now above this u r gettimg crazy to ask her to see how her husband is being shared !!!! very stranged, you should leave all this rubbish things. Making love is same either u make to ur wife or to any other woman.
2007-05-06 00:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by cool guy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋