I beleive that if I talk them,the things will worsen
2007-05-05 23:14:34 · 6 answers · asked by zelisia21 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You have only three choices. 1. Suck it up and say nothing. 2. Say nothing, but drop them. 3. Explain your feelings and see what happens.
Personally, I'd go with choice 3. Explain your feelings calmly. Your friends' responses will say a lot about them. Personally, I don't think it matters so much whether they agree with you or even really understand why what they've done has upset you so much, as long as they see that their behavior is hurting you and that that's reason enough to change. If they decide that you're wrong to feel the way you do just because they don't feel that way, that's a bad sign. But they could surprise you.
2007-05-05 23:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them, point blank, they hurt you. It might feel embarrassing to go into a bit more detail 9on this site) with your question or the hurts you've experienced is too deep to actually write about; sometimes writing about the hurts will help you, here, or in a journel, which you can get rid of later.
2007-05-06 06:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by Keselyű 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've posted several questions around this topic, perhaps you should post on the specific situation you are trying to address, maybe others will be able to offer you better input if they have more understanding what you are talking about....
2007-05-06 06:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to them and if you have a geniune relationship they will understand. Perhaps they are lesbians are are jealous of you not being attracted to them. Who knows?
2007-05-06 06:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
without any further info, i can't answer this...just talk to them. or find new friends...
2007-05-06 06:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, dont be like that.. tell them how you feel!
2007-05-06 06:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Giggagirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋