we like to go to the bar together, but my husband doesn't. thanks
2007-05-05 18:46:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How would you feel if your husband had a woman friend he would like to go to the bar with? While I think it's fine to have a male buddy, as long as your intentions are only friendship. Its always the intentions that decide if it is friendship or not. If you male buddy has any other intentions than friendship then you are walking on dangerous grounds. For me, your husband should be your best friend, your love, your lover, your confidante and I would much prefer to go to a bar with my partner than any man on this earth. If I need time out, which I very rarely do because we are so compatible, then I usually go to see my girlfriends and have a coffee or a few drinks with them. My man is everything to me....I dont need another male friend to go to bars with. I have male friends that I see at work and talk to, but I dont want to go out with them anwhere unless my partner was with me. I wont hide my friendships from my partner. I am open and honest with him. He trusts me and if I wanted to go to a bar with another man, Im sure he wouldnt mind. I dont want to, like I said, hes my best friend, we have wonderful times together, we have great conversations...he is fantastic company...I couldnt ask for any one better.....so I ask you....why do you want to go to a bar with a man other than your husband?
2007-05-05 18:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's good. It is often hard for guys to befriend a woman without it at some point getting sexual. How would you feel if your husband had a girl friend. You may trust him but if he and her were at a bar would you trust her if they had A LITTLE TO MUCH TO DRINK? I think you are putting yourself in a situation to cause your husband jealousy and opening a pandoras box. You better go out with your husband and spend your time with him...your a married woman and married women need to put their husband first. Good luck sweetie.
2007-05-05 19:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs a buddy. Especially one to be the designated driver alternately when you two drink. If your husband knows everything there is to know about your friend and has no problem with the two of you hanging out together don't cross the line of hubby's good nature. You are very lucky.
2007-05-05 19:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you mind if your husband and his hot friend from work went out to the bar together and alone on a regular basis.
2007-05-05 18:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by searay092003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. I would be asking my self what kind of connection are you not getting from your husband that you feel the need to have another male relationship in your life. Plus you love your husband so is it really worth upsetting him. Honestly would you love it if he hung out at the bar with some other chick, I would think not.
2007-05-05 18:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by mav426 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, there are 2 reasons why.
First, if your husband have female friends then
you should have male friends.
Second, if your husband ever acts up,
you have that male friend to lean on.
Take Care & Have Fun!
2007-05-05 20:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way as long as your sticking to your vows then your fine...just don't do anything your husband wouldn't approve of. Just don't talk too much about this guy friend of yours too your husband he might become jealous and want to get back at you.
2007-05-05 18:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Corey W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes the opposite can not be just friends because the guy always wants to have sex with her.It's what they live for it's all they think about it's all they want to be doing.
2007-05-05 18:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with that, if your true to your husband and he knows whats going.
2007-05-05 18:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by eyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband has a problem with it, then you probaly shouldn't hang out anymore.
2007-05-05 18:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋