Gynocologist....1st time.......age 13......?

Question

I need all the details about what they do and everything cause my mom thinks i need to go if my period is still causeing me a bunch of problems afteer the summer. im scared ehlp!!!

my mom is waiting in the waiting room. i would feel better if a friend went witrh me

Answer 1

your 1st visit will consist of: removing of clothing, and putting on a paper garment = 1 for upper and 1 for lower body. then the doctor will come in and talk to you about your situation and he will then call in his nurse so he can examine you. If you are uncomfortable about this, then have your mom in the room with you. That is ok.
He will then insert a specullum into your vagina. The specullum just kind of holds the vagina open so he can see your organs more easily. It doesn't hurt.....just kind of awkward.....after that, he will examine your breasts to see if you have any lumps. And after that, he will have you dress yourself and will want to discuss his findings. I really do think it will be ok if your mom is in the room with you for your 1st visit, and it will probably help you to relax.....relaxation is the key for your 1st vaginal examination....there is nothing to be nervous about.....it is just your doctor examining his/her patient.

I prefer a woman gynocologist because women can be more understanding of female things....because they go thru these things that we females go thru.== do not be afraid....this is something that we all have to go thru like it or not. But I have found that a woman doctor can relate to my situation better than a male doctor because she has been thru it herself.

I hope this has been helpful for you and I want to wish you the best of luck....and may God bless and keep you healthy and safe.

Answer 2

It really does sound scary, I know, but it's not as scary as you think.
Yes, having someine examine your downstairs isn't exactly my idea of a good time, but it's not a nightmare either.
The most uncomfortable thing about everything isn't physical, it's mental.
It doesn't hurt at all, you'll feel a little bit of pressure when he puts the speculum in (it looks almost like a pair of cylindrical plastic tongs that open up the vagina just enough so he can see your cervix.), he'll probably push on your tummy a bit, where your ovaries are, he might swab your cervix (for what's called a pap smear. checks for the Human Papiloma Viris. You've seen the commercials for Gardasil, vacine agains cervical cancer) then he'll feel your breasts for a little while (this, oddly enough, was the weirdest part for me! lol) he's checking for lumps that might be cancer.
Do some research, learn EVERYTHING you can about your own anatomy, become comfortable discussing it with your mom, maybe a close friend also, and don't be afraid to ask questions!

Trust me, you won't be the gyno's first 13 year old patient and not his last. They know what they're doing, so relax as much as you can, maybe ask if you can bring a cd or mp3 player, that might help a lot.
Good luck! You'll do just fine!
Sheena

Answer 3

The links below give you lots of information. But you also need to understand all of the following.

This exam in a bit uncomfortable, but it's not painful. You need to relax, and deep breathing is the best way to do this.

You will never be alone with your doctor during this exam. There must always be a nurse present, watching the exam, to protect both you and the doctor.

There is no reason for your mother to not be with you and every reason for her to actually be there. She's been through this before and chances are that your friends haven't. That's aside from the fact that at your age, your friends are likely to gossip about your visit and all of the details, and you don't need that.

If you're having problems with your period, it's not that bad of an idea for you to have a first pelvic exam. But there is no reason for your family doctor to not do this, and it might be easier for you.

You will be asked if you're a virgin. Tell the truth, either way. This isn't about judging you in any way, it's simply that some part of this exam will be done is a slighly different manner if you are, and your doctor needs to know this. Your mother may also want to you have the Gardasil vaccine, and you need to not have any sexual experience for that to work. It's done in two shots, a few months apart. It can save your life.

Finally, a pelvic exam is something that every woman needs to have, every year. Again, it can save your life.

Answer 4

I'm not going to lie to you... if they give you a pap smear for the first time it's going to hurt! I'm 17 and had my first one at 16. she did tell me though that it helps a little bit if you wear tampons since you're used to having something in there. you should definitely get them regularly when/if you become sexually active. you sound like the case I had... I went to one b/c I had terrible periods and acne and weird hormones. they put me on birth control for it and it really helps for all of it! I had my mom go with me. it will definitely be easier to have someone there for you, but take someone you really love and trust because it is a bit of a humiliating experience. if you ever need someone to talk to just email me! I'll help any way I can.

Answer 5

The first time i went i was 11 because i haveing problems with my period on the first visit he did an internal exam which didnt hurt too much. But it was nice to hold my mums hand she didnt see anything you have your legs up and a sheet over you so only the doctor will see anything

Answer 6

It shouldn't be too big of a deal. I've personally never been to the doctor for anything like that even though I need to, but like you I don't feel comfortable, and I have so many other neurological problems going on that my mom hasn't pushed me into it yet. My friend said that it's not that bad- it's just like seeing a regular Dr.

Answer 7

http://www.4woman.gov/faq/pap.htm

Take deep breaths!

The doctor will make you as comfortable as possible. Just let the doctor know this is your first time. They talk to you and let you know what they are doing the whole time they examine you.

Some parts are uncomfortable, just breathe deep, have your mom hold your hand and talk to you.

Answer 8

i just whent through my first time going too. im 16. ok so its nbd !!! (no big deal) dont sweat it !!! all the doc is going to do is just probable talk to you and she/he might want to mess with your stomach. good luck and just dont worry :)