I'm gay. I have a buddy that doesn't know I'm gay. He's str8 but he HAS to know I look at his crotch when we're talking. He never says anything. Does this mean he actually would like for me to do things for him or he just doesn't want to call attention to it. He's always trying to embarass people but has never said anything about this. I would just like some feedback.
2007-05-05 16:57:29 · 15 answers · asked by Sam D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I always say, "if you've got a nice package, you might as well show it off!" It sounds to me like his crown jewels are gift wrapped for admiration. Try drooling the next time you're gazing at his goodies. If he squeezes his perky pouch of pleasure, you'll know he enjoyed the flattery.
2007-05-05 17:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by C-Bag 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he really doesn't know you're looking. If he was your real friend he wouldn't care. As for wanting to do things for him, go ahead and try. Just make sure he's okay with it. There is nothing wrong with crotch watching though. I do it a lot.
2007-05-07 12:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by darkskinnedxbeauty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a chick and I look at guy's crotches and azzes all the time. Your friend probably likes it. I'm not so sure he would actually want to do anything with you. He may just like the attention. We all like it when other people check us out (whether we're attracted to them or not). It's flattering. I'm straight and have no attraction to other girls but sometimes I've noticed other women looking at my t*ts. I just kinda smile and think "Hmm, I think she likes my boobs".
2007-05-06 02:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he probably has no idea you are focusing at his crotch. i have a hard time maintaining eye contact with people for a long period of time when im talking to them so i look all over the place. don't base an assumption on a lack of evidence :P
2007-05-05 17:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by ambientdiscord 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really shouldn't do that to your friend. Crotch watching at the bar or whatever is one thing, but treat your friend with some respect and look at his face when he talks to you.
2007-05-05 17:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by Elaine 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably a good sharp rap across your face would teach you some well needed manners and etiquette. When men are talking to women they do NOT "stare" at their crotch so why do you do that? I have noticed, down thru the years that the "habit" you have seems to be a trait of most queers. Grow up and act like a.....er....man. Pops
2007-05-05 17:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by Pops 6 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Does this mean he actually would like for me to do things for him?
No, not at all. That means he respects you and he doesn't want to embarass you.
2007-05-05 19:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by marjooj2000 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I love stearing at guys crotches, turns me on. If your friend hasn't said anything is because he doesn't mind. You may have a chance there. Now let me ask you, Is it big?
2007-05-05 17:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lost In Translation 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Do your best to not crotch watch.
2007-05-05 17:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by Cipes 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
maybe u just want to think he knows
2007-05-05 17:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋