I moved and didnt tell my ex girlfriend until the day before.
On her msn messenger she had a quote "love is an illusion we create to comfort ourselves".
When I arrived, unpacked and went online she had changed the quote to "no more illusion its gone".
Then she posted a picture of her kissing an ex boyfriend. Then she moved that picture. Then she just put "i love him".
She never did any of these things before, only since I moved.
females, whats going on?
2007-05-05 16:26:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Obviously you have now become an illusion to her and will only exist as an illusional memory, just like her kissing an ex-boyfriend in that picture, an illusional memory that has been called to mind.
Life goes on with or without you and you will only be remembered through mere memory, until you are forgotten.
"Once loved, now lost, in the perils of forgotten memories."
2007-05-05 16:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Smahteepanties 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...girls can play games just as much as guys can. Nobody can realy tell you what is going on because no one knows what made you two break up, how long you have been broken up, if you have dated other women, if one or the other was cheating. With no details, all I can conclude is that for an ex, you still care about her enough to look into these "messages". You didn't tell her you were moving because...? Sounds like you are too concerned with her, and she is....? If she is an ex, and you don't want to talk to her, than don't. If you do/still do, just simply ask her. It is that simple.
2007-05-05 23:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she put a picture of her kissing her ex-boyfriend up then she must be with her ex. Why ask if something is going on? It would seem that you're watching her too closely. Stop watching her and you won't have to worry about it.
2007-05-05 23:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Adam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't phased that you moved and didn't tell her. And perhaps she is sending you messages the only way she knows how, by being passive-aggressive. Why do you care anyway? You moved and didn't tell her, so obviously you don't want to be with her any longer.
2007-05-05 23:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you are both into game-playing. Why would you not tell your girlfriend until the day before moving? It makes no sense. She is retaliating by playing more games.
Just leave each other alone and move on.
2007-05-05 23:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by trollunderthestairs 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What's going on is that you seem to be cyber-stalking this woman.
2007-05-05 23:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by humanfemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋