For men only please!?
if u got involved with an unhappily married woman who was being repeated cheated on and emotionally abused by her husband, would u want to be with her if she in return cheated with u? if u were the one who initiated the relationship and u both started out as friends and u and the married woman started to become more involved, would it make u hesistant later on, say if she got a divorce from her husband, would u think that she would cheat on u if u got with her?? would u want to be with her?? if not, why?
2007-05-05 11:55:29 · 20 answers · asked by hello458 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she has never cheated on her husband other than with me....so i would not say she is a habitual cheater.
2007-05-05 12:04:27 · update #1
a guys point of view............butter b............have i got a story for you...what i'm about to tell you is true...because it happened to me...i met a woman here on this computer about 7 or 8 months ago...she was the most beautiful woman i ever layed eye on...she lived in tenneessee and i lived in alabama...we spoke for about a month or so and we agreed to meet...i traveled 185 miles to see her in the middle of the night...i went on the promise of a kiss belive it or not...after that night we made arrangments to meet again...she too was abused by her husband both physical and emotionally...she was a very passionate person...kind,considerate,loving...in late february we had been seeing one another every other week near her home...but at the same time i didnt know that she was seeing someone else too...on march 5 at about 5:30 am i shot her an i.m. on yahoo just as i did every morning and her husband was on line when it poped up...well needless to say he accused me of taking his wife and i was called a few choice words...i assured him she wasnt with me and some how i convinced him...come to find out,she run off with a guy from north carolina...i've spoken to her a couple of times on the computer and she denys even knowing me...the only thing is, is i used the motel reciepts as a tax deduction and her tag number is on them as well as mine...what i'm getting at is this...i'm not telling you she will cheat on you, but the possibility is there...i have found that when a person cheats once its easier for them to cheat a second time...you have to use your own judgement on this...look at her/him,and see whats in their hearts...really in their hearts...the eyes dont lie...sit and talk to this woman...show her your heart and tell her whats in it...see how she reacts...but don't do as i did and give your heart completely to her until you really know her...it takes a long time to get over a broken heart...and some never do...be safe...be kind...and i wish you love...
2007-05-05 12:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by hystericaly_kinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be asking a woman who's been in this situation. There's a reason why she was cheating with you, right? You shouldn't start a relationship while you are in one, especially if you're married because you end up realizing that the reason for cheating were the wrong reasons. Unless... the reason is because she's really inlove with you. There are certain situations when the person you've been looking for isn't the one you ended up with. If the reasons for cheating is from what the husband is lacking or isn't doing, then it's the wrong reason. It's easy to find something that you're looking for from someone else if you're not getting it at home, especially if the "other" man knows what the husband isn't doing. So it depends on the relationship that you built. Is it because she's having problems with her husband or is it because she is really in love with you?
2007-05-05 12:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but I am a woman.....you never should have gotten involved with a married woman whether she was unhappily married or not....sooo wrong on so many levels. the thing is how do you know that you are not just a distraction for her because she is so miserable in her marriage....has she talked about leaving her husband for you? I don't think I would say once a cheater always a cheater in this case IF everything she is telling you is true, do you know for sure that everything she tells you about her relationship is true?...I dont know I would back off
2007-05-05 12:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if she has seen you more than once and
is married she is an habitual cheater, and secondly
if she cheated more than once , doesn't matter
with one man or several, then I would have nothing
to do with her as she would end up doing the
same to me.
2007-05-05 12:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that she is cheating with you to pay back her husband for his unfaithfulness. Unless you have first developed a deep friendship with this woman, she may be using you as a way out of her marriage. Usually, once a cheater - always a cheater...
2007-05-05 12:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's all aside of the fallout whilst matters cross south in a wedding. She might were within the equal obstacle had her dad determined any individual rather then you - and in time he might have. So I would not make any transfer towards her, however attempt to stay as authentic as feasible - pleasant provided that the obstacle known as for it. I certain may not go away him, however I'd permit him recognise. Good good fortune.
2016-09-05 08:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by cistrunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough Question. She was probalbly in need of safety and companionship. Doesn't mean she will cheat again. If there is love, respect and real true intimacy, no way would she cheat again.
Not sure I would want to be with her. She might have lots of baggage about men in general. I would look into your own heart and hear what it says. Is your life better with her in it than without her?
Good Luck
2007-05-05 12:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by aggieguy48 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i didn't even get two lines into your question before i had an answer (but i did finish it).
you're question is flawed, yeah, her husband is cheating on her, but she is also cheating on you. she's just as bad, and deserves what she gets.
i would have nothing to do with her (maybe be friends, but that's it).
ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER.
2007-05-05 11:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol nice way to put it home wrecker and u telling her lies or being more involved so she would leave husband for u then question it. yes if she did it for the reasons u mentioned should have waited till she sorted out her ****. grow up look at the big picture.
2007-05-05 12:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by stawberryshortcake81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is so miserable with that man and you are the source of her happiness then I think you can feel secure in your relationship...provided you do not behave as her husband did.
2007-05-05 12:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by gcbtrading 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋