I have known my friend for almost 8 years now. Two years ago, I found out she's a backstabber, can't trust her with my secrets.
Anyways, these days we talk. So, May 14, her and other friends wants me to join them for World's of Fun. I told her, I'll see if my schedule is clear on that day.
To be honest, I don't have nothing to do on that day. But I don't want to go with them because I still have the feeling of how she used to talk behind my back with other friends. I know they'll be making jokes and running around crazy. I'm the type of person who always since I was a kid act like a mature person and don't run around crazy.
Should I tell her the truth of how I don't want to go with them?
2007-05-05 08:47:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her your busy but if she insists then tell her how she makes you feel and maybe she'll try not to act that way. but if u tell her and she gets mad then shes not worhed
2007-05-05 08:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by Alice Cullen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iwould tell her the truth. That's more then she's told you in 8 years. I had a friend for 10 years & a month ago she decided she didn't want to be friends anymore no reason, we were like sister"s. But it's a blessing noe I don't have to take her places or go anywere when I don't want to. She finally started talking to me about 2 wks ago, but we will never be close anymore & now when she talks to me she can't even look me in the eyes. Just remember when 1 door closes another 1 opens. Hugs,
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2007-05-05 15:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by texasstar1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely tell her the truth. honesty is always the best policy, and if she doesn't like you for that then it's her problem. but did she apologize for being a backstabber? because 2 years is a long time and she might have changed and you don't know it because you've been too afraid to hang out with her.
2007-05-05 15:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dear then pls do not go with them.The answer is lying in your question itself that you do not want to go.But it is difficult to measure that how much crazy they are otherwise in a friends get together acting little bit crazy is a common thing and it is good for mental health.If u know little bit acting my suggestion is u go there talk and laugh with everybody,give full attention to a friend who usually get least attention but coolly and smilingly avoid that backstabber.she will get the message.
2007-05-13 12:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by mdhmtgpt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand how you are feeling cause i've been friends with this gurl for 13years.we been fighting lately cause all she does is start sh*t with everyone. but tell you the truth she's not really your true friend if she does that behind your back like mys so call friend does
2007-05-05 16:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by Dixie grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you act like a mature person. What is the mature thing to do in this situation?
2007-05-05 15:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honesty is always best. I would tell her the truth, she'll respect that is she is decent.
2007-05-05 15:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I only had these simple problems. to be young again
2007-05-05 16:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The truth will set you free."
2007-05-05 15:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by LarryBirdFan33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would.
2007-05-05 15:49:32 · answer #10 · answered by i love you <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋