why marriage is important and what it will do into life?

Question

why do need to get wedd then after a years you will just broke up,many complaints of each other and many argruements you can get from each other,many hurtful words you get and sometimes it will come to the point that you hurt each other physically and mentally unhealthy for both of you and with the family and for the kids,

Answer 1

That's a good question and I'd have to go back to Adam and Eve to respond. I truly believe that God wanted us to have someone like us to be happy with - to enjoy the fruits of life, to plan and have children and enjoy the generations of our families. I also believe that we have become a jealous and hurtful generation. We have forgotten the simple things in life that can make us happy -we are over zealous about material things and have given less thought to the simple life that can offer even more pleasure. Marriage is an important step in life and we have to teach our children how 'not' to make the mistakes we did. Love will always be the foundation of a marriage and we cannot look at the 'things' that love can buy or do for us - but how we were loved by someone even bigger and greater than ourselves. That's the mirrow we have to look at and then our complaints and criticims of each other would go away - because in my opinion, if I look at my mate the way Jesus sees him, pure, perfect and free of sin and doubt - then I have no complaints. I will treat him exactly the way I want to be treated and my love will allow for him to make mistakes without me calling him names, and bringing him down, and fussing and nagging. It took me a long time to understand that, and two marriages down the drain - but now that I do - the Lord has sent me someone. Until I was ready - I had no one in my life. Now that I do - I feel complete. I am a whole person and he is a whole person, but we complete each others wholeness.

Answer 2

The idea of marriage came about for the protection of women and children. At one time there were practically no jobs for women. An unmarried woman had a very bleak future to look foreward to. Children without fathers ended up on the streets as beggers.
At that time (most of history ), just about all marriages were lifetime arrangements. It worked for thousands of years. Even a real bad marriage was prefered to mo marriage for women.
You're wrong when you say that marriages break up after a year. I'm on my fifty-third, and some of my neighbors have me beaten by eight or ten years.
Nope, I have never even raised my voice to my wife. We are in a marriage, not a boxing ring. There is no way that either of us could harm the other. Some, some people argue, but not all.

Answer 3

marriage is for those who are looking for a commited relationship. the reason they have hurtful words and stupid stuff like that is because they havent married someone who knows how to make them happy. thats all.

Answer 4

Stop you from sins.
If you are not ready yet
then you should wait
because not all marriages
are bad and not all marriages
end in divorces.

Answer 5

Dont get it either...,

You still live togther, snuggle, shag, play together etc just minus the expensive party