help here! red alert! i have slept with my girlfriend a couple of times.our minimum rounds is about 4 rounds. almost everyday we had sex for 2 weeks.. i use the withrawal method and i am 90% sure that i did not squirt in my girlfriends vagina. my girlfriend missed her period during that month. how to prevent from resulting pregnancy!? i really ned help. is there any method to escape from pregnancy? please help me. i am in big trouble with my parents. any tablet or drug she must drink to forcely have her period? thanks in advance.. =(
2007-05-05 00:51:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
OK---1st of all, YES, you can get her pregnant using the withdrawal method. Just because you don't feel a "squirt" doesn't mean a sperm hasn't passed thru. It only takes once to get pregnant. You now have to face some music my dear. 1st of all, your girlfriend needs to go to doctor and determine if she is pregnant. You both sound young, so next step is tell parents in some proper way. There are several ways you can do this. If your so terrified to tell them, then maybe you can tell another adult who could help intervene with your parents. Thirdly, there is nothing she can drink or take to stop it. You made serious choices by going to bed with her. Now you have entered a very adult world overnight, literally. I hope you find someone you can trust to sit down and talk with. Best wishes in your future.
2007-05-05 01:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by White Rose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, unfortunately, since it's been long enough for her to miss a period, then it's been way to long. if SHE doesn't want the baby then her only options are abortion and adoption. please don't rely on the withdrawal method, a man ejaculates small amounts during sex. i was in your girlfriends EXACT situation when i was 17. whatever you do, don't force her into anything, my boyfriend at the time did, and it has taken me 8 years and having a child to get over the loss of that baby. support her, and invest in some condoms, or birth control if she's not pregnant, however i doubt that. if she missed a period and was having sex without protection, then she's probably pregnant. good luck.
2007-05-05 08:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by VW Girl :o) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is pregnant, you have no options but to keep the baby or offer it for adoption.
Abortion and pills are NOT options. They are gravely sinful choices that both involve chemically destroying a developing human life.
I'm sure you have realized by now that sex can lead to babies. That's why it's for married people only.
Have you ever thought about how weak you are as a man? You cannot control your own body. You so easily gave into your physical passions.
Choosing abortions or pills will also prove how weak of a man you are. A real man protects his child. He does not kill it to "get rid of the evidence." Take responsibility and you will be respect by your girlfriend and your parents.
Abstinence is about control and respect. Make a resoluation today that you will be a MAN and not sleep with any women before you are married and stable and financially responsible to care for any children that might result.
Don't ever forget there are many childless couples who would love to adopt a baby. You might be the answer to their prayers. I will be praying for you.
2007-05-05 08:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, calm down. next, you need to find out how she feels about the pregnancy. it is not your decision whether or not she aborts this baby. it's hers and hers alone. if you're worried about what your parents think or will think, you are probably pretty young and you should have been more careful. the only birth control that is 100% effective is abstinence. other than that you should be using condoms. as far as i'm aware, the abortion pill is illegal in the US. she will have to see a obstetrician in order to have an abortion since it sounds like she's at least a couple of weeks along so the morning after pill will not work. if she chooses to keep the baby, then you will have to deal with the consequences and so will both of your parents.
2007-05-05 08:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by 4Xthe fun 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No your only option if you want to get rid of it is an abortino, which at this early stage of pregnancy can be done by taking a pill which you must go to your doctors for, don't attempt any home remedies they could be disasterous.
2007-05-05 07:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is as long as its up to 72 hours later and then there's the coil, that can be used uptp 5 days after, but the earlier the better.you know the only method of safety is to to put somthing on it and if she is pregnant you need to think of it more possitivly mate x
2007-05-05 08:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wake up! Has the withdrawal method EVER worked???
If she's now pregnant due to your 'careful and considerate' withdrawal, I guess it's time for you to to have a baby!
Buy her a test!
2007-05-05 08:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no... if she is pregnant and you dont want the baby your only options are abortion or adoption.
By the way you know what they call people that use the pull and pray method? PARENTS!!
Be responsible.. cover it up!
2007-05-05 07:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by EMC623 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a little late...
She should have taken the day after pill, and you should seek a more reliable method such as condoms.
Cross your fingers, possible daddy!
2007-05-05 07:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
umm HELLO! have u neva heard of a condom?????????????
there is NO method to escape from pregnancy.
you play with fire..........you're going to get burnt!!!!!!!!
didn't you listen to your mother????
and you cant force a period.
hope you are a better DAD than you are a boyfriend!!
2007-05-05 08:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋