I am 13 years old and i really like this girl in my school and we are friends but she is always with her best friends and she almost never leaves their side. Can anybody help me on how to get her away from them without looking bad or embarrassing her or myself so i may ask her out? By the way I would appreciate tips on how to ask her and where to go on a first date.
2007-05-04 18:28:44 · 12 answers · asked by *Deleted* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yOU have to make a path to her by avoiding her for a while and so you and her are just acquaintance. Say until you are 15 years old or until you feel that you really like and love this girl or until your parents are ok for you to date early. Don't be too friendly with her but not to the point that it will look like you are totally ignoring her but just not too close. When you see that someone is asking her out, make sure that you;ll be on the guard so that she will not go out with that guy, kind of befriend the guy instead and tell him that you really like the girl. And oh, use her bestfriend to bridge you with her but also watch out, sometimes the bridge is the one that end up being hooked. You can email her to tell her if it's ok to ask her something that's really important to you and it needed privacy. So maybe you can ask her to go to the mall with you so she could help you buy present for your mom at Claire's so if you ended up buying something, it will not be too hurting in your pocket (affordable stuff over there). If she say yes to go to the mall, this is your opportunity to show how gentleman you are, how polite you are and how serious you are when you are with her (don't be a clown). Tip: Some girls sometimes get offended and embarrashed if the boy is too funny and have uncontrol body language and loud laughter when they are one on one with them. And the rest of the story is up to you to put an ending....Don't try to grow too fast, because too much experience is sometimes hazardous to your future. OK? Ask Mom and Dad if it's ok already. Good Luck.
2007-05-04 18:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by earth angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a brother that play footy ask if she is going and meet her there and talk. Or just pull her aside and tell her that you need to talk to her after school by walking her home so that will give you a chance to talk. A first date could be having her over for a bbq or rent a dvd out, go to the movies, tenpin bowling. If you have any older brothers or sisters they might be able to help you futher. Good luck
2007-05-04 18:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by bundy_boy38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know were you can go since I am not even aware of were you life let alone familure with what is there. Don't worry about getting her alone, be a man you might impress if you do! If you dont like that one... If they still do school dances, does she go to them? Get her to one some how, ask her to dance, preferably a slow one if they still do those and whisper your question durring the dance. All and all dont worry about embarasing your self, try not to embarras her and don't sweat any of it. Your 13 either way life is far from over.
2007-05-04 18:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by nekoolzec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, try to become part of the gang she hangs out with. Then if you find that you too have become one of her best friends, then you may get a chance to ask her out.
2007-05-04 18:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kalyansri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go to a movie. Very simple and easy, but also a good first date place. Then you can go to dinner after.
:)
2007-05-04 18:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by Angelacia baybeeeeee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try out to know places where she wud like to roam n have fun then decide upon where to take her for date??????
2007-05-04 19:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rutu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah.
just ask her!
and for ur first date u cud go on something nature-y to get to know each other better! climb trees, hike, etc!
2007-05-04 18:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant help you with first date but i got my gf threw email.. get her email (if you dont already have it) and email her works for me hope she ses yes
2007-05-04 18:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by broken souls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young, I guess you can develop this "Boy meets world" situation, like Tapanga and Corry, and I guess you can play around and say something like " If we get married....." and stuff like that.
2007-05-04 18:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by George H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
under-age for advice... ask your parents
2007-05-04 18:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋