I mean I post a question about me being black and not wanting to date a black woman. I mean why do all the black sistas go mad and jelous. I just am attracted to lighter skin. Is that a big deal as to cause all the name callings??
2007-05-04 15:50:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
It is not about anything. I love all race or anythig. Actually I would date a black woman who has lighter skin. I mean I am just attracted to light skin. Not white not black...and why do I have to handle all the bad eye looks?
2007-05-04 15:55:56 · update #1
You sound pretty racist to me that might have something to do with them not caring much for you.
2007-05-04 15:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Most guys can come up with a reason for why they don't date black women. I hate when we are stereotyped as being loud or being single with kids by different fathers.
For me it fells like you're saying that you're black but black women aren't good enough. Even-though technically you're just as back as a male who would only date short women or ones with a certain body type.
2007-05-04 20:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by a_non_ah_mus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a white female and before when I dated a black man I got the same response from white and black people for one thing people dont like what they dont understand some people think that people need to stay with their own race I think that its up to that person who cares what they think/say anyway its not their life so tell em to **** off!!! Have a nice day
2007-05-04 16:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by serenitydaus 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Racism is alive and well, why can't a woman be a woman and a man be a man, why does skin color have anything to do with it. You date who you want to date, if the gestures of others is a problem to you, then may be you should reconsider your choices.
2007-05-08 05:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like who I am attracted to. But, I have noticed since I am a Ph.D. and fairly handsome, my own Native women often do not provide me the time of day. While some Euroamerican women love me for who I am. So, it is not that I dislike brown women, I love them. But when it comes time for me to be with the women who love me, they always react with jealousy and hate for non-Indians. Sad.
2007-05-04 16:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by nativearchdoc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for them, but I'll say this: Preference in dating a certain colour is not because of racism, but because of attraction. I'm white, and I'm only into white guys, but I have no qualm with guys of other ethnicities whatsoever.
2007-05-04 18:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not hating but this is a question and answer site.. you need a a dating site, www.match.com or something. you are not gonna find your light skinned / non-black woman here.
but to answer your question, its entirely up to you who you date to be honest, you arent tied to any race or complexion.
2007-05-04 16:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Interesting that when this man expresses his personal preference in women, he is called a racist, but if a woman expresses her preference in men, she is just exercising her right to choose who she wants. Typical feminist hypocritical double standard.
2007-05-04 16:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
....and they wonder why you feel about them the way you do.....
2007-05-04 15:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Tammy A 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋