...but I refuse...I tell her it is private, but she insists that I dont want to share them because i am hiding something ( I 'm not)....what do u think>?
2007-05-04 15:23:55 · 23 answers · asked by Arthur 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I truly loved the person I would. If you have nothing to hide, what is the problem, I knew my husbands password when we were just dating.
2007-05-04 15:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Misty M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's any reason for you to share this with her. Even if she gives you her passwords, who's to say she doesn't have one you don't know about? Tell her to stop obsessing. If she doesn't trust you, figure out why. This goes way deeper than the email passwords.
2007-05-04 22:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by autumnstarsong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she just doesnt trust you and wonders what youre up to, your email is private and if she has any concerns she can ask you she should have enough trust and faith in you that youre not hiding anything from her, dont give her the email she is just looking for something to feed into her already suspicious mind....
2007-05-05 20:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to share it then don't. Don't let her push you around. If she keeps pushing and pushing tell her to stop it. Some things are private. Tell the truth about how you feel because if you lie to her you will end up somewhere you don't want to be. If you say no and she then says, "I want to break up," you should because you don't deserve a girl who wants to take over your life.
2007-05-04 22:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by Krissy O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs their own privacy in a relationship. If she can't trust you then that will be an unstable relationship. You should be entitled to your own privacy so you shouldn't have to give your password out. That's for you only.
2007-05-04 22:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that talk with my boyfriend also. some things are private. Wouldnt you be upset if she went into your email and deleted stuff or worse sent something to someone else using your account.
2007-05-04 22:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by pegasis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants to get into your email to make sure you don't send/receive email from other girls. Or to see if you save all hers bla bla bla.
Basically, she wants it so she can be controlling and throw jealous fits of rage.
Don't give it to her. <3
2007-05-04 22:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be that way and now i regret it. dont give it to her no matter what she'll be checking it all the time and she'll just be getting mad. how long have you guys been together?? i understand if ya'll were like, married .
if she thinks your hiding something then she's insecure and she's probably the one hiding stuff from yew
2007-05-04 22:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she doesn't trust you. Has she been burned in the past?
If I were you, I wouldn't give her my passwords. Confront her and ask her why she doesn't trust you.
2007-05-04 22:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to get over it! you don't need to share EVERYTHING. it's your private e-mail regardless if you have something to hide or not. She's just insecure. don't do it!
2007-05-04 22:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋