I'm in the mood for a good knock down drag out...
For all the haters out there that have misconceptions and stereotypes that are against bisexuals, why don't you come out and say them now? Just rant and let it all out so that the people in here that truly would like help with their issues can get it without having to sift through hate filled speech. I can take it, so bring it on! Tell me what exactly you think is so wrong about our lifestyle and what PROOF you have to back it up. Thanks !
2007-05-04 15:15:12 · 19 answers · asked by *jen* 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
BTW: I know this doesn't apply to 99.999% of you wonderful people in here, so please don't think I am speaking of everyone..
2007-05-04 15:16:59 · update #1
I'm not giving permission to insult anyone. Let them rant here. I truly don't care what they have against me or my lifestyle. But there ARE people who come on here is search of ANSWERS, and hear nothing but misguided bigotry.. So hopefully if the haters let it out, maybe they'll leave those alone who truly need guidance. And YES I am angry. A friend of mine came here for help and got nothing but put down and slandered for being bisexual. As I stated this is not about the 99.999% of good people here.
2007-05-04 15:23:15 · update #2
Ya know, I put this up for the haters to rant, and I get the sweetest nicest people answering.. Serves me right for trying to be mean in a forum filled with all of you wonderful people. You have put a big smile on my face when I needed it the most, Thank you.
2007-05-04 16:06:59 · update #3
This is my first evil "curse" in Haiku :)
Angry boiling oats
Splattering offensively
To burn the haters
I do hope the "ignoranties" leave you alone. If they don't just recite the curse.
People also hate me...simply because I'm gay, love Oats, am medium height and write bad Haiku. I'm like a four-sided oddity.
It doesn't bother me anymore because these "haters" are simply not worthy of my time. They're not worthy of yours as well !
Baci & Pace
2007-05-04 18:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well someone must have pissed you off.
OK, I'll give my opinion...but take it easy on me :-)
I am a lesbian. And I do not date bisexual women.
Don't I hate on bisexual women...no. However if a woman told me she was bisexual I will run the other way.
There is a certain trust that I do not have for bisexuals.
I like a woman that knows what she wants, and bisexuals want everything!
It's hard enough finding a trustworthy lesbian, but messing with a bisexual woman! Damn! That's double the headache.
For me it's about trust, and I cannot trust a woman that can easily leave me for a man or a woman.
I really think some give all a really bad name.
A woman had a crush on me, and I actually liked her too, but she told me she was bi and I couldn't mess with her. Was that ignorant on my part? Maybe. But there is no trust.
I have seen MANY friends men and women. Hurt by people that just go back and forth that cannot make up their minds about what they want.
I'm not trying to slam bisexuals, or be an ***. But that's just how i feel.
2007-05-04 15:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by angelajock 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's doule the competition. You are competeing with men and woman when you are dating a bisexual.
You dont know who to be jelous of....another girl..or another guy.....
I mean, not that jelousy or comeptition is needed when you are in a "trusting" relationship, but the thought is still there, you cant help it.
There is a positive and a negative side to being a bisexual just like there is to being purely gay or straight.
Don't worry what other people say Jen, if your happy, and so is your husband, well that's all that matters then!
Stress less. :)
Cheers.
2007-05-04 16:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Bisexuality is misunderstood because people like to label others. They will say that if you are not straight, then you must be gay; they only view things in their own little minds as wrong and right, gay and straight.
These people will say that those who call themselves bisexual do so to avoid the stigma of being gay and pretend that bisexuality does not exist, and then when a bisexual person ends up with an opposite sex partner they will yell and scream that the bisexual person was really a gay person who chose to be straight.
The only choice is whether you want to be in a relationship with another person or not, and those who have problems with what other people do in their bedrooms must not be doing much in their own.
2007-05-04 15:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
They're trolls, ignore them. It's really weird though that some GLBT people are prejudiced towards bisexual men & women. Grow up! I'm a gay guy, but still I understand bisexuals. Bisexuality is just another natural orientation, and it's not a result of anything, it's just who you are. And it's unfair to call it lifestyle. It's an orientation. You like both men & women...so what? I say to hell with what others think! Enjoy your bisexuality!
2007-05-04 15:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
um, the queer hierarchy? (Just because a group is oppressed doesn't mean they can't oppress others and enjoy advantages that disadvantage others) Across the board, if it isn't hurting me, and it isn't hurting anyone else, why would I even give a damn?
And if people want to bring up STD's (STI's) I recently read over a study of STD Transmissions among lesbians and so the bi-blame-game really just, yeah it base reasoning and I prefer intelligence. I understand why some people would want to scapegoat their own lack of proactive approches to sex and health on a sexual minority other than their own but I just don't play those petty games anymore..
Anywho, I like your thread. ^_^
2007-05-04 18:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 09:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by riopel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No love, I have no objection.
Jesus lo...If you are so against homosexuality, I hope you equally oppose the mistreatment of women, married or otherwise who daily suffer the attentions of males who take delight in inflicting suffering on their partners.
Rose P.
2007-05-04 17:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by rose p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not against it, but I will never ever date another bisexual girl. Personal experience and not a good one..
2007-05-04 15:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous25322523523525 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Put'em up.... Put'em up.... ggrrrrrrrrrrrrr.............. (is my Cowardly Lion impression working yet? No? Drat.)
Okay how about annoyed Mama Otter? (large showing of sharp pointy teeth and claws) Much better!
There, there, Dearest, Mom's brought Godiva ......
2007-05-04 15:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋