okay so here's the deal i need some suggestions on this should i talk to an ex- friend from the past i mean i think that we won't even see eachother again because she lives far away so i mean what's the point right...........anyways the strang thing is that i had a dream of her like one or two days ago and the next day i found her on the net what do you think that mean?and what should i do........lol weird uh
2007-05-04 13:39:34 · 10 answers · asked by manny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if u really dont wanna talk to her or be her friend ne more, then dont, unless u feel that u should be nice for no reason then thats find and if u stil wanna be her friend then go for it... but u decide what u wanna do cuz u are the one u have to end up living with the decision...... dont stress ur self enjoy live................. have lots and lots of fun...
2007-05-04 13:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by nickesha t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, only you can answer this question. When you say "ex" friend, it sounds as though your separation was not a happy one. If that is the case -do you want to honor the past by reliving the negative? Do you want to come full circle and allow whatever happened to come to a close and accept some redeeming qualities of your friendship? Do you have the time to cultivate the friendship? Sometimes, it's better to leave things as they are however, I do not take dreams lightly. There may be a message there in which both of you may benefit. Take a chance and see.
2007-05-04 13:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do. If they want to be together, they will. You being pregnant will not stop them. You asking them politely to not see each other will also not stop them. You'll have to possibly step back from being friends with either and concentrate on being a single mother. Make sure the father has the opportunity to be involved, but don't force him....but surely make him pay child support. You and your ex boyfriend broke up so he could attend college? What about his commitment to the baby? He obviously doesn't have your best interest, nor the baby's, at heart. Seems very selfish.
2016-05-20 22:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, that is weird lol. Same things happened to me... I think that you should try and talk to an ex-friend, BUT! ...it also depends on what was it that really caused her to turn into an "ex-friend". If it was a big and serious issue, then probably it really aint a good idea... I have talked to some of my ex-friends... but there are also some that I havent at all.
2007-05-04 13:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason why she's an ex-friend. It's already been established that her personality does not meet your standards. But the dream thing is weird...
If you do talk to her, dont give her your email address or anything.
2007-05-04 13:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Just Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had a best friend of three years and then she started telling me how to live my life we didn't talk for three months then i thought that i missed her it wasn't even a week and she was back at it. So if you had a huge falling out whatever the reason your not friends anymore is likely to rear its ugly head so if you do decide to talk to her again be careful.
2007-05-04 13:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. Like someone said, what's the worst that could happen?.. She might just talk to you.. then you two can be friends online, call each other and etc.
Why is she your ex-friend?... Just because she moved away?
Best Of Luck
2007-05-04 13:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by latinapr1229 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk to her? Even if she lives so far away, email lets you keep in touch with people all over the world. If you had a dream about her, talk to her and let her know. Maybe something is going on with her and she could use a friend right now.
I got married in Oct 2005 and I moved to CA from VA. I really didn't have but about 10 friends from my job and my one sister and her family that were coming to be on the bride's side whereas my fiance's entire family lived around us and some of them weren't really thrilled with him marrying for a second time. I had to make his twin teenage girls bridesmaids, plus my sister and a friend from work. For some reason, I was almost afraid of my own wedding--my first--because even though there were going to be a lot of people, I felt alone. I had sent out invitations all over the place to extended relatives and friends, even to people I knew for a fact couldn't come, but I just wanted them to know I was getting married at last. My parents were both gone as was my brother. My sister was my only family.
Then I got an RSVP in the mail from my best friend from VA that I hadn't seen in 12yrs when I was in her wedding. We had started out as neighbors in the same apartment building when she just started teaching and I just started nursing. For 9 yrs we lived side by side and were like sisters, then she got married and moved. I had spoken to her about 6yrs ago but kept in touch with her parents because her Mom had cancer. Well, she was coming by herself even though she was happily married and had twins that were 9yrs old. I was so happy and for some reason, I didn't feel so alone anymore. My fiance had to pick her up at the airport because I was busy entertaining other out of town guests and the wedding party. I didn't even know what she would look like but once she walked into the restaurant where we were having dinner , it felt like 12yrs had melted away. I stayed at the same hotel as her the night before my wedding and we stayed up so late catching up. It was wonderful and she helped me out with the rehearsal and everything because she always was a good planner--she was a teacher---and she calmed my nerves and kept me from losing it a few times. During the reception, she fit right in and charmed everybody with her southern accent, which brough my southern accent back out again, and after he wedding, she and I and my new husband stayed up and talked for a while at the hotel. We drove her to the airport the next morning as we were leaving on our honeymoon at 6:am and she was returning to VA. It was sad to see her go. But about 2 months later, she called and let me know that her husband had some seminars to go to in LA and she was going to go to Disneyland with her twins for 10 days. My husband and I went down to LA and spent 5 days at Disneyland and I got to meet her twins. Now, who knows when we will see each other again, but I have a feeling that if either one of us ever is in need of a friend, one of us will be there for the other.
I know that this was a long drawn out story, but friends are a very precious gift and even time can't stop a friendship. Dreaming about your friend may be her way or someone's way of saying "Hello! " Give your friend a call. You never know.
2007-05-04 14:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by bboop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, find new friends, cuz if it's an ex friend then something happened that screwed up the friendship, i wouldn't go down that road again
2007-05-04 13:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her... whats the worst that can happen? you die? tell her exactly what you told us and she'll understand why you wanna talk to her.
2007-05-04 13:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Zuy_N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋