I was offerd a job in an other state , We were looking at my fiances divorce papers and it states that she can only move 50 miles from her ex thats dumber then a box of rocks, Does anyone know if you can move from the state of north dakota to an other state with the kids with having to put up a fight with the ex husband, She would let him have the kids all summer rather then ever other weekend since we would be to far for weekends, HELLLLLLLLLPPPPPPP ME OUT HERE . We plan to get married but not now because if we got married now it would look like we are getting married just to move
2007-05-04 12:40:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes we plan on telling him that we plan to move
2007-05-04 12:45:11 · update #1
Is there an easier way then going through the courts or will it have to go to court
2007-05-04 12:47:21 · update #2
ONE OTHER THING HE HAS 3 DUI`S IN THE STATE OF MN. AND HE HAS 1AT LEAST ONE IN NORTH DAKOTA AND HE MOVED THIS WINTER AND HE NEVER TOLD MY FIANCE THAT HE HAD MOVED OR EVEN GAVE AN ADDY WE HEARD IT FROM THE KIDS ,
HE IS ALSO ON PROBATION FOR 7 YRS
2007-05-04 12:50:19 · update #3
We know but sometimes the law tends to favor the ones that should not be favored
2007-05-04 12:59:25 · update #4
who cares what it looks like
as a married couple you arguement carries more clout in court
2007-05-04 12:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
His driving record/arrest records don't matter, it says in the divorce papers that she can only move 50 miles from her ex. And here YOU are calling him dumber than a box of rocks and you are asking a stupid question. Imagine that. SHE has to go by what the custody papers say or if she tried moving those kids the dumber than a box of rocks can have you as well as her charged and convicted of kidnapping. So you'll just either have to battle it out with him or she will have to give him primary custody and have the visitation order changed or she will simply have to stay there and you move on. This is what happens when you claim someone is stupidier than you are.
2007-05-04 14:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really sticky situation but one that definitely will require some court action especially since her ex doesn't seem to be on the right side of the law. You should have a good case for full custody. Would you really want that man to have an entire summer with the kids with his record?
2007-05-04 12:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The divorce papers state that she can only move 50 miles from her ex. For the sake of the children... imagine courts putting the wellbeing of children above someone's love life.
2007-05-04 12:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the divorce papers state that she can only move up to 50 miles away from her ex's place of residence, it will take another court ruling to overturn the first one.
2007-05-04 14:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit thinking about yourselves...Think about HER children. Is it fair to them to move so far away from their dad. And I'm sure you thinking "yeah but he's a jerk" ... doesn't matter he's their father and it is important that they see him on a regular basis. If you were in his shoes, how would you feel if someone else wanted to take your babies to another state and offered you the "summer" I know I wouldn't go for it!
If the woman that you are planning on marrying is worth marrying then she will put her children first and keep them close to their father. You should come second if she is any sort of a mother.
my advise:really think about what you are getting yourself into here!
2007-05-04 13:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ready to fight this one. It's gonna cost. My exwife wanted to move 5 hrs away, she had to leave the kids. I don't think she wanted to take them but anyway. I think its a bad thing to take the kids that far away. If she does, he can take her back to court on contemp charges, and the judge might give the kids to ex hubby. Good Luck
2007-05-04 12:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend you examine your order of custody, she might want to not be able to bypass out of state if there is not a provision that asserts she will. maximum new child help orders state that you likely can not take the youngster a particular type of miles from the county the youngster develop into residing in beforehand the split without criminal documentation from the non-custodial confirm giving permission.
2016-12-05 08:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only that but you can petition the court.
2007-05-04 12:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by Vinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to be notified. Otherwise he can file charges for kidnapping, if he still has his rights.
2007-05-04 12:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Weather nut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋