I need help..please..?

Question

About 2 years ago i lost my grandpa..i still havent accepted it and i cant seem to move on..i still cry about it all the time..i dont wanna forget him but i dont wanna be this sad anymore..any help?

Answer 1

You can try counseling. Or you can try getting your mind off your sadness by helping others who are even worse off. Find a place to do some volunteer work -- do it in honor of your grandpa. Ask a teacher, parent or counselor for some good ideas where you can volunteer.

Also, even though it's been years, it's OK to still feel sad. My grandpa died 17 years ago and I still miss him. It won't always be so hard, I promise.

Good luck.

Answer 2

2 years is an extremely long time to mourn anyone...you shouldn't still be crying all the time. It's great that you loved him so much, and that you think of him all the time, but by this point, you should be smiling when you think of him, not bursting into tears. The fact that you are still so depressed means that you're not moving through the grieving process like you should be. I would call a grief hotline (if you can't find the # in your local phone book, call a doctor or hospital. I'm sure they will help you) and TALK to somebody, or if you can, see a grief counselor. Maybe, you just need someone who understands and validates your sense of loss to talk to you. Talking about it helps. You'll be feeling better in no time I hope...Good luck.

Answer 3

You need to accept your loss. Your grandfather is not comming back and your tears and sadness is only making it worse for you. Your grandfather wouldn't want you to be this sad over him and he'd want you to be happy and move on. Don't forget him, but remember him in a better way instead of crying.

Answer 4

It's hard, it's very hard to go on when you lose someone close to you. It's OK to be sad but your Grandpa would want you to be happy. If you can think of him as happy, very happy on the other side then it could help and know that you will see him again someday.

Answer 5

i'm the same baby girl, i still remember my grandpa once in awhile. i have a rememberance sting that i tie around my wrist. just a constant reminder of who he was and i won't forget about him. you have to accept that he's gone but carry his memories with you always. your sadness will fade in time. just remind yourself of how your grandpa wanted to see how strong and how great person you'll become.

Answer 6

I was like you when i lost my mum, you will never forget him he will always be in your heart, and always in your thoughts, it will get easier as time goes on, the more you talk about him the more you will remember the good times you had with him, i found that when i when to my mums grave side and spoke to her and told her what was happening in my life it eased the pain i was feeling, just remember he will always be in your heart, best wishes

Answer 7

That's the problem, you have to think positive, i know it's hard, i know what you're going through, i lost my dad eight years ago, and about two years ago, i decided that it does'nt make any sense, 'cause i know that he wants me to be happy, not miserable. So i think that hi's still with me, in my dreams and in my memories, and in my heart forever!!!!! I hope my experience helps you!!! You can refuge with your family!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

No matter how much you cry you can't bring him back. All you have now is all the great memories, live with that, and go on with your life, he is in a better place now.

Answer 9

would ur g-pa want u to be this sad for him? PROBLY NOT!!!! I was close to mine to and i was sad for a while but where he is now hes looking down sayen GIRL WHY U CRYEN!!!!!!! Its beautiful here, and im ok!!!!!!!!! TRUST ME HES ALL GOOD WHERE HE IS!!!!! THERES NO BETTER PLACE THAN WITH THE ANGELS!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

Try counseling. It helped me when my cousin was murdered.