And I am not trying to bash feminists, I do not beleive that they are all lesbians or whatever...
I was just being curious. Because alot of sceintific studies I read on human sexuality show that women are fluid in their sexuality, and can become aroused by either a man or woman.
Do you feel this way?
2007-05-04 10:24:24 · 31 answers · asked by ĦΣŊ®¥ ЈǾ 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Yes it is true just ask them and see how red there faces get!
2007-05-05 00:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ivan S 6 · 11⤊ 2⤋
my answer to this is NO. I have no interest whatsoever in the female form as a sexual thing.
I enjoy the company of women because we have different interests to men so we can chatter about the things that interest us.
How I would like these studies to inform the female world NOT ALL WOMEN want women. I have been bombarded by silly females who truly thought I was a lesbian. Dont know why I have never given anyone the 'eye' never poked my boobs at anyone, never touched anyone, wiggled my bum at anyone.
I am presuming this is what is done to get the attention of another woman. I felt very uncomfortable yet at the time I didn't know these stupid cows were lesbians. Please let the female world know how to let women know 'Im not a lesbian' when I can't spot one anyway.How is this done. There must be something some sign I can give to let a female know I am not a lesbian even if she isnt either.
At this point I feel very ignorant because i don't know the ways of lesbians.
2007-05-05 03:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by jupiteress 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
In studies in anthopology, they talk about how, in reality, there is no such thing as "bi-sexual". The reason they say that is because human sexuality is fluid. There is no clear cut line between gay and straight. You can answer this question simply by asking yourself "where would the line be?" If you have a one night sexual encounter with a same sex person, are you gay? Can you have a one week relationship with a person of the same sex without being gay? Can you have a one year relationship with a same sex person and still say you are not gay? Well, what if you had this one year relationship over 30 years ago? What if the one year relationship happened over 5 years ago?
See, there are no clear cut lines between gay and straight. Human sexuality is fluid. If you looked at human behavior on a graph, it would like more like a bell curve than a straight line.
So, I believe that most PEOPLE, not just women, actually fall somewhere in between.
2007-05-04 15:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by juniper366 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
I do not assume that either all males or females have homosexual urges. It is seems reasonable that many of us may have thought about such things at one time or another. The homosexual percentage seems to remain at about 10% of the total population. The percentage of bisexuals is unknown to me.
Personally, I have no concerns to what consenting adults do in private. I have no desire to see public displays of sexual activity of any sorts. I have always thought it interesting that in the adult movies I have seen which seem made for heterosexual men that there is always a lesbian scene.
2007-05-06 03:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by david42 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i'm just one woman, but I'm happily married and have two kids. I think that all the women I have ever known have been sexually infatuated with me. Women either hate me or love me. Those that don't like me are three hundred pounds and make their kids bring them everything and won't get up and clean house or anything. Those that do like me are physically and sexually active like me, makes us feel better, look better and be happy and nice. You can just tell if a woman is not getting any satisfaction she turns into a cow.
2007-05-08 04:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i am a woman. i find some women so beautiful but they do not arouse me. i admire some women, but they don't make me horny.
i think some people confuse the feelings of amusement and admiration for sexual arousal.
2007-05-05 04:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Miki 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Not this woman!!! I feel uncomfortable even when I'm examined by a femal doctor. However, I'm trying hard to get over that discomfort.
2007-05-12 04:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Caribbean Queen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This applies for both men and women, but you see it with women because it is more socially accepted. So girls have the freedom or more freedom and much less stigma, plus some aren't bi but makeout with girls to get guys attention at clubs, etc. But the thing about women is there are straight women who like to watch lesbian porn, but would never want to have sex with a woman. The reason is because I have come to conclude that women can get aroused in two different ways that are direct and indirect, whereas, us men seem to get aroused directly. Like some women who like Lesbian porn like it because they see women being pleasured, and the tenderness, and eroticism to it, but these straight women aren't thinking "mm, look at those **** and butt, I would like to..." Whereas, a straight man probably is. So this arousal is indirect, but women can be directly aroused too sometimes, and if they are straight or more towards straight it would usually be towards men.
But I think you are going by the porn scientific studies, but that has proved to not be correct, because it measured women's genital response to the flicks, which indicated women got aroused by all types of porn unlike men. But these straight men could have be bi, but defened against it by not getting physically aroused, but could have mentally. I believe there is a disconnect in that women being aroused below does not mean she has a bi tendency and she is just reacting to sex and especially since women aren't as accustomed to wacthing porn as men so all this sex and stuff might all be exciting to her whereas as guys are more selective, because they are accustomed to it. But fantasies, and curiosities could just be that. For some women there is an urge that they try, and others they have the urger but deny it or are scared or hold it off.
While others are just merely curious but don't really have the desire so it is just a taboo fantasy that is left as that and nothing more. So I would say this applies probably to people in general as indicated from the Kinsey scale. But I do believe there are many women who have urges, while many are just simply curious and don't really lust for women, and others who don't at all. So I think it is scattered.
BDorian, don't you think men might have been genetically disposed to find female features attractive just as women for men? Yes women are beautiful, but it's one thing to find someone beautiful and attractive it is another thing to want to fu** it. A woman are gay man could say the same thing about men having nice fim muscles, and hard. Us guys have been genetically set to not just see women as beautiful, but be sexually driven to women. But saying it's understandable for one to be attracted to women being soft and beautiful, well of course as a straight guy you are going to see it that way. I mean flowers are nice and soft, and beautiful, but you don't want to f*** flowers do you. Well unless you have a flower fetish and well... whatever floats your boat I guess. So it is more than just soft and beautiful, there is genetic disposition in men as well to lust for women.
2007-05-04 13:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Brennan Huff 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
No, I have no desire for a women to feel me up. That is a man's job and leave it at that.
2007-05-11 13:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lee 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe they wonder what it would be like I dont know about all or most but I have thought about it but that was like 6 years ago
2007-05-04 16:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by serenitydaus 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I believe all people have bisexual urges & suppress one side or the other. The men who beat up homosexuals are frightened by these feelings. As any mature adult knows, you can have feelings without acting on it.
2007-05-04 14:59:01 · answer #11 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 6⤊ 2⤋