im a guy and bi and i also have a g/f but i like a guy but i really love my gf but would it be wrong for me to go out with another guy????
2007-05-04 10:20:05 · 29 answers · asked by james b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Cheating is cheating no matter how you look it at. I would ask yourself this. How you would I feel if my girlfriends cheated on me? Does matter who it is with. Cheating hurts and it is not fair. Please don't be that guy.
2007-05-04 10:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by atlantaboi3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, since you are in a relationship and you two do not have an understanding that it's an open relationship(which i just don't understand at all) then you are cheating on her and you need to make a choice of who you would rather be with! Her or the guy. It's fine to be bi in my opinion, some people don't like bisexuals because they say that they are confused and stuff. But i say whatever be with who you want to when you want to. I am not saying chose a who you want to be with as far as gender. I am saying chose which one of these people you want to be with right now and stick to it. I think that by dating both of them and hiding this from both of them(if you are hiding it, you didn't specify that in you question explanation) you could hurt both of them or hurt yourself!
2007-05-04 10:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating regardless of sexual orientation. Bi-sexuality is not a permission slip for promiscuity and your sexual orientation should not be an issue in your question. If you love your girl, as you say that you do, then don't cheat, with anyone(male or female)!
2007-05-04 10:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's cheating, I don't see how it possibly wouldn't be, it's another person after all.
Get permission from your girlfriend, the cheating is the fact you're hiding this from her, not the act itself. If she knows and gives thumbs up for it, then it's not cheating.
So if you love your gf, you'll tell her, instead of sneaking around.
2007-05-04 11:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating the girl and it's exclusive, than yes, you would be cheating.
Go out with the guy and when she finds out argue that you were not aware that your casual dating constituted an exclusive relationship.
"Bi" is not your argument. The level of commitment is your arguing point.
2007-05-04 10:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by ElvisMp49D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may want to talk to your girlfriend about that 1. If she's alright with it, and you don't keep it from her, then it's not cheating. At least not in my book. You'll have to tell the guy as well. If hes not alright with it, then don't puch it. And if hes alright with it, just because haven't told him, then that is cheating.
Hope that answered your question.
2007-05-04 10:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Twili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If going out with the guy is outside the parameters of your relationship (i.e., she hasn't consented to you seeing anyone else, guy or girl), then yes, it's cheating.
The gender of the third party is irrelevant.
2007-05-04 11:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it's. If you really like this guy, you should be honest with your gf. Don't date more than one person without the other knowing it. Let your girl know about the other guy.
2007-05-04 10:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeppers, 'fraid so.
Cheating is cheating regardless with whom.
Now, if you two have an open relationship and she knows about you and about your need for him... I guess the only one who could answer then would be her. Right?
2007-05-04 10:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is is she does not know. Does she know that you are bi? I would tell her and then also tell her that you would like to see men. Hope it all goes well for you.
2007-05-04 10:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by justjrry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋