hmm, Okay this is odd cause my fiance is more educated then me - thus has more degrees under her name as appose to I, which makes me feel like I am not the bread winner in the family.
Don't get me wrong, I am proud of her accomplishments, however I do wish to be the Man of the house. Its just not like that..
I did my Bacelors in Business and o did she, after which I did a MBA. She has done an MBA from a decent place, and also done an MSc from one of the top 10 business colleges in the world. I am actually jealous - a little bit that she has done more, so she gets paid more, and I don't feel that important.
Recently she came home at 2am... she was at work, I got back at 9 and waited for her to come - so that we could eat. I ate dinner alone, and she came back and didn't even ask abt me cause she said she presumed I ate, I did not eat...
I don't know what to do, or say..... I do not even know how to talk 2 her abt this and what to do.....
please advice, and what do u think?
2007-05-04 07:30:53 · 5 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
By that I mean I ate a piece of leftover lunch from the fridge - thats what I called dinner - cause I got hungry.
I did not eat the actual dinner that I cooked - The meatloaf
2007-05-04 08:07:35 · update #1
Well, its really all in your head. I understand what you mean.. Im a guy too. I wouldnt want that either. But all I can suggest is to maybe change your mindset. Think of it as a team effort.. you'll are both earning income for the family as a whole... money has no colour..whats hers is yours and whats yours is hers.
Another thing I would suggest would be to takeher out for lunch/dinner and you pick up the cheque..Thats a feeling you're really gonna love..trust me.....It'll make you feel a lot better..Like a boost of testosterone..
But mostly remember..money does not a man maketh.
You can satisfy your need to be a man by, for instance, being aggressive in sex (if you dont mind my saying that!)..
By aggressive I mean Assertive!
2007-05-04 07:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by DichloroDiphenyl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two need to sit down and talk this whole thing through.
Good luck!!
2007-05-04 07:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuum...my dia love is the only thing that matters,mayb u 2 shud find time,sit down and tel her wat is bothering u cz if u don then nothing wil b solved,ul b miserable...damn!no matter hw busy a woman z,comin home at 2 ain acceptable,that daznt sound gud,talk 2 her n u btr do it soon....GOODLUCK!!!!
2007-05-04 07:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by mina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she could teach you how to spell.
2007-05-04 07:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and try to make her understand how you feel! xxx
2007-05-04 07:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Emilee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋