I would love to have a woman in complete control of my life, not just the sex thing but everything. I have made such a mess of my life myself. Women seem to be much smarter than me. How does a guy go about telling a woman that without looking like a wimp? Are there many women who would like that kind of relationship?
2007-05-04 07:26:17 · 12 answers · asked by ohio756 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Not my style. I don't like depending on people, and I don't like people depending on me. However, I'm sure that such a woman exists in reasonable numbers.
2007-05-04 07:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not my style, particularly, but I think you might be able to find a very driven, motivated woman who would be a good match for you. I'd say try to date woman who were the oldest child in the family, as you tend to see this personality a little more there. Many, many, women, however, want a guy who seems "strong", and it is important to many women that a guy has a solid job, which is a sign of good character.
As far as the sex thing, you'd probably be most compatable with someone not so driven and motivated - people often enjoy playing with feeling the opposite of how they feel in normal life. A person who feels very in-control during the day might enjoy relaxing and letting their partner call the shots in bed.
Best of luck in your search.
2007-05-06 09:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Junie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds bizarre, but is sounds like you want the opposite of a dominatrix.
The reason I say "opposite" is because when a person is perpetually in a position of leadership and domination they look for a person who can take this burdon from their shoulders. So a Surgon, Lawyer, or CEO will in fact be looking for a partner who will control the home. In fact, I would guess you've got a very high stress career yourself, and this is why you want a partner who will lift your burdon too.
Yes, I belive there are these types of women out there for you. Explore ... explore yourself to see what you have to offer such a woman (yes, more than $$$ ... what qualities, support, emotions do you have to give) ... explore what you want from the woman ... explore different places to meet such women ... and lastly, when you find that woman, don't completly surrender ... always keep a little of you in control for at some point in the relationship, she'll need to to carry her too.
2007-05-04 07:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do you secretly want women to dominate you? Its a bit self ebsorbed to assume just because you want to dominate that women are wanting you to dominate them. What is the weather like in your personal universe were your god?
2016-04-01 08:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see the thing is you just don't want to do anything; you want everyone to do everything for you. Leave me out I want my men to be winners not losers. Have some pride, for pete sakes! Like one poster said strap on a pair, glue them on first and eventually you can loose the strap. You can't go crying either cause you'll really prove your a losing wimp and why in the world do you want that? Back to square one; it means you won't have to do a thing. Most women no matter who or what they are don't like that. They don't want to raise a child who lives under the pretense of a man. Sorry that's the way it goes.
2007-05-04 15:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are looking for a real-life 24/7 domme (female dominant). There are websites out there to meet people like that. I've heard it's pretty competitive for guys though.
Let me clarify that I am not talking about a professional. I'm talking about a regular woman who wants to have this kind of relationship with you.
2007-05-04 07:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by Emmie 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but you want a mommy and I am already taken.
2007-05-04 11:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not me......I'm extremely independent and could probably whip your *** into shape, but I'm already raising one child. Don't want anymore.
2007-05-04 07:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmmm. No. I can't feel protected and loved that way.
2007-05-04 11:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by sunflowerdaisy94 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wudn't appreciate that kinda relationship. i prefer equality and fairness in relationship.
2007-05-04 09:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Preeya 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋