Ok here's the situation. About a year ago i got very sick, my husband started cheating on me and we seperated. Well as i recovered i was going to give him a second chance but he kept cheating. Anyways my best friend and her husband let my ex move in with them even though i didnt want nothing to do with him at all. i asked them not to but she said "it wasnt her place to judge him". i was hurt and felt like she picked him over me.
2007-05-04 06:44:35 · 18 answers · asked by Dr Honesty 77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she truly was your best friend "judging" wouldn't even have come into play--she should have respected your wishes. PERIOD!!! Time to get a new man, new friends and on with your life--sounds like you are the only one with any eithics and morals around there!!! You deserve better than that!!! Ya know the old saying, with friends like that--who needs enemies!!!! Good Luck, hun, you are going to be just fine!!!
2007-05-04 06:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know why she allowed him to move in with them. I think it is rather strange myself. She is your best friend!!! Is she the one he cheated on with? Something smells if you ask me. If my best friend told me she was having problems with her husband due to cheating I would never allow him to live with me. He chose to cheat and there is no reason for him to cheat even if you were very sick. He should of been by your side and helping you through this ordeal. She is not much of a friend if you ask me.
2007-05-04 06:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-09 11:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is a foul person for cheating on you. And you have EVERY right to be mad that he did what he did. You can feel what you like. HOWEVER, the end of the matter is that it is not your place to dictate who they have live with them or not. It's not your home, nor is it your business.
2007-05-04 06:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wasnt your best friend at all. Maybe she was the one cheating with him.
2007-05-04 06:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That stinks! Get a new friend. It's obvious who her alliance is with. Oh, and warn her husband that his wife is about to cheat on him with your ex.
2007-05-04 06:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by Beach Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that "your best friend" deserves that title.She doesn't care about your feelings, if she was "your best friend" she would be looking out for you. How can she do that to you after what that piece of **** did to you. You shouldn't have anything to do with her, maybe he was also cheating with her as well. GET THAT ***** OUT OF YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW.
2007-05-04 06:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't get involved or say anything. In time, your ex will do your friend and her husband dirty and then she'll wish she used better judgement.
2007-05-04 07:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yow ... I'd forgot about the x-husband and the best friend. She obviously has no respect for you at all.
2007-05-04 06:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Lirrain 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She isn't your best friend. Was she the one he was cheating on you with? I would dump her and him. No friend of mine would EVER do this. You instincts are probably telling you this is wrong, that's probably why you posted this. Go with your instint not your heart!! GOOD LUCK!
2007-05-04 06:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by mlsherratt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋